The waiting is the hardest part. Can’t get that chorus out of my head for nothing.
My mind has been going through every possible alternative.
Saturday was bill day, because having the power turned off now would really kinda suck. I think I figured out her filing system and found some paperwork. Natalie stayed up with Anissa most of the day. The shifts are beginning. Some folks came in and some folks begrudgeoningly left. The cavalry arrived in the form of an SUV filled with familiar kids and two oh-so-sick-of-being-in-that-vehicle adults. My girls thought it was Christmas when they opened the door. Apparently, the squeals eminating from 5, 8 and 9 year old girls actually CAN shatter glass. Who knew?
Nathaniel’s best bud came along…they were cool about it.
The fort they built is ready for Ragnarok. But then again, compared to these kids, Ragnarok is for sissies.
Ok, so homefront taken care of: check.
I’ve decided to stop looking at the readouts from the cat scans. They don’t tell the full story. The scans keep reading no change or mild improvement. They are done by different radiologists, so it’s a game of telephone with them.
We’ve also backed off some in how and how much we’re pushing her. At first we were talking and poking her as much as we could. My common phrase is, “you fight when you can; rest when you need to.” We’re letting her rest more now, and not pushing her to her full limit yet. We’re seeing progress. A fair amount of progress.
Saturday she opened her eyes when some friends were up. She would squeeze her hand when asked. We’re not sure how much she’s seeing, so we’re asking her simple questions. Saturday night, they were messing with the brace that holds her breathing tube in place. I’m pretty sure she was in pain because the therapist left it in an awkward position. Anissa made a fist and tried to reach up. The restraints held her back, and I put my hand on hers. She swatted it away and made a fist again. I tried to wiggle my finger inside her hand and she used her thumb to “eject” my hand from inside of hers. Coordinated movement! Might sound simple, but that was extremely encouraging.
On Sunday, the real fireworks began. I brought up the pillow cases the kids used the night before, so she could smell her babies. I printed off big pictures of the kids from our last round of yard work. Anissa’s a shutterbug, so she likes to take these LONG breaks and take pictures. I played some of the videos she’s made over the years. There were 2 that I kept playing for her. The background music of the first was “Bring the Rain” by Mercy Me. Beautiful words and oh so fitting. The other one was Superwoman by Alicia Keys. I don’t know if she ever finished making that video. It was one for all the cancer moms we’ve met over the years. It was great to see the faces of all the other parents we’ve gone through struggles with. It was like they were there with us. I’m pretty sure it wasn’t a final draft because she was listed in it twice. Who knows, maybe that was just foreshadowing on her part.
When she opened her eyes Sunday, I would hold the pictures of the kids in front of her. I asked her to squeeze if she could see the kids. She squeezed. Hard. For each one. No favorites there. I held her hand up in front of her face and asked her to open it. No response. I held my hand in front of her face and made a fist. She made one. I said open it, and opened my hand. She opened her hand immediately. There was a hint of a tear in her eyes. There was also a bit of recognition I think.
She’s working so hard.
She’s fighting.
Please keep praying.
On a side note, later in the day, someone called me and was asking about something that I just didn’t want to deal with at the time. My response was, you can ask my wife, she’ll be awake on Thursday.
We’re going to see a miracle folks.
I just know it.
on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:47 am
shes a miracle. ((praying strong))
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:47 am
I am hoping and praying for you, Anissa and the kiddos. If anyone deserves a Thanksgiving miracle, it’s you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:48 am
Amazing. Thank you for sharing Peter and we are all willing that miracle to happen on Thursday. -Christine
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:48 am
Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers daily!…. She will pull through this I know it!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:48 am
I believe, Peter.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:49 am
Thank you for the update…prayers still coming, so proud of her fighting so hard.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:49 am
I have chills.
Thank you so much for the update.
Love to the whole family, and FIGHT ON, ANISSA!!!
xoxoxo
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:49 am
You are such an amazing writer. The way you give these updates makes me feel like I am right there. She IS fighting, she WILL wake up! You both are so strong… thank you for another update. We all really appreciate it!
Mandi, who’s never met or talked to Anissa
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:50 am
I can’t wait to witness that miracle, and I sing praises for every single baby step. Progress is incredible, I’m so so so thrilled by this post.
Thank you so much Peter, for keeping us all in the loop. It means more than you know.
xoxo
-Arianne
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:50 am
You are being so strong, and doing such amazing things to help her. What wonderful progress, thank you so much for keeping us updated.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:50 am
This has me crying. But in a good way. I so hope you get your miracle.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:51 am
I am crying as I read this. Anissa is a fighter and I am so thrilled to hear how hard she is fighting.
Peter, we’ll all keep praying, I promise. For Anissa and for you and the kids. You are all in my heart.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:51 am
Thinking good good thoughts for Thursday!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:51 am
I am still praying with and for your family! Yes, she WILL wake up on Thanksgiving!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:52 am
Praying for your lovely wife and your entire family. I know I will see a miracle too.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:52 am
Baby steps will lead to tiny teps will lead to big and bigger steps.
Very encouraging.
Still praying for Anissa and You and the family.
Thanks for taking the time to update us.
Hugs
charlotte
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:52 am
That’s very encouraging! Keep pulling for her, be strong, we will be praying for your family. This is the time of year for miracles.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:53 am
I’m praying hard for your family.
We’re all ready for this miracle.
Hang in there Peter. Anissa, we’re waiting on you!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:53 am
So much love and hugs for your family.
Anissa is so strong and so are you. Thank you for keeping us updated on how everyone is doing.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:53 am
thank you for sharing this with us. your strength is contagious and we’re all pulling, praying, hoping, believing.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:53 am
Ok then, Thursday. Marking the calendar. Hopefully we’ll have a big something extra to be thankful for on Thanksgiving Day.
So glad to hear of the progress she’s making so far. Thanks again for keeping us posted.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:54 am
Wow, I don’t think I took a breath that whole time reading. All my love to you guys.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:54 am
Wonderful update!
Thank you for keeping all of her online peeps in the loop, that’s incredibly generous of you.
God bless you all today, and supply more strength, hope, and encouragement than you can imagine.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:54 am
I believe so strongly in all of you Peter. Anissa (and the rest of the family) is in my thoughts daily. Thank you for the update. You are right, the waiting is the hardest part.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:55 am
Happy tears here for one of the bravest women I have yet to meet. Stay positive and I’ll be thinking good thoughts for you all.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:55 am
We’re praying as hard as we can. Thanks so much for the update, Peter. We love you guys.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:55 am
Yes, I agree Peter. We will see a miracle and it will be this week. We are all still praying and in awe of your strength. Keep it up and know that she will be fully healed. God is the great healer, and no matter what the docs say or what the read outs show, anything is possible. ANYTHING
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:55 am
YOU CAN DO IT ANISSA!!!
I think you’re right, she’ll be up on Thursday, just in time for dinner.
Thanks for the update, Peter. I am sending all my positive vibes and thoughts and goodness your way.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:56 am
Peter, thank you so much for taking the time to update all of us.
Anissa means so much to so many.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:56 am
I believe in miracles. I believe in Anissa and your family. Still praying. And praying. Much love.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:57 am
This is amazing, and I pray we get our miracle soon. Hugs to you and the kids.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:57 am
Your words are beautiful, Peter.
Anissa is a rock star. I just know we’ll see miracles too.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:58 am
Continuing to pray for Anissa and I do Believe!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:58 am
I’m praying, I’m praying!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:59 am
Praying for a miracle, it looks like it’s already in the works!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:59 am
first of all…wow are you a terrific writer.
and yes, we will see a miracle! so many of us are here cheering her on!!
take care.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:59 am
You are just making me cry every time I read your posts… happy crying.. not so much sad any more.. These updates are truly a highlight of my day, and I thank you for keeping them up.
I believe in miracles, and I pray that you get a Thanksgiving Miracle!
Keep fighting Anissa!!!
Hugs to all of you!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
GO ANISSA GO!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Praying for a miracle! She’s amazing! Thanks for your continued updates..we appreciate it so much!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Thank you so much for taking the time to keep us updated. Your strength is inspiring, and your family is in our prayers constantly.
“Bring the Rain” is one of my favorite songs… the video must be amazing.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Thank you so much for updating us. Anissa’s a fighter. We’re all pulling for you and your amazing family. xo
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Praying for a miracle for you and your family. I only know you and your family from what I have read, but you sound like amazing people. God bless you all.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:01 pm
Thank you for the update! I am crying yet again at your wonderful writing about Anissa! I really believe and I am praying so hard that Anissa gets her Thursday, Thanksgiving miracle! your update is so encouraging! I am thrilled that there is recognition and she is fighting so hard! She’s going to get her miracle, I just know it! Keep fighting Anissa!!!! You can do it!
Much love and prayers to you all from Binghamton, NY
Desera
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:01 pm
I am praying Peter. I believe.
You are an amazing husband Peter. Don’t forget that.
Keep having faith and keep loving her and I will do the same from afar.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:01 pm
So sorry that your family is going through this. I cannot even imagine how hard the waiting is. Still praying hard for you guys and for Anissa. Thinking of her every day. <3
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:01 pm
You all have a whole team of prayer warriors here in Texas working for Anissa and your whole family. Keep fighting Anissa!
Phil 4:13
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:03 pm
Sounds so hopeful and promising. Continued prayers and love are on their way xo
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Prayers and good vibes are being sent your way.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Praying that she is awake on Thursday too!!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:04 pm
I just found out about Anissa from another blog I read. I’ll be praying for your family. I’d also like to pass on a book reccommendation. My aunt had a stroke in April and it gave our family a better idea of what she was/is experiencing. It’s called “My Stroke of Insight” by Jill Bolte Taylor. She is a brain scientist who had a stroke.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:05 pm
You’re such a good husband. Praying really hard and keeping all of you in my thoughts.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:06 pm
A day hasn’t gone by that Anissa and your entire family is not in my thoughts. She is a fighter, she will pull through.
Thank you for your updates and for keeping us, her friends, here internet in the know. I appreciate, we all appreciate it so very much.
Fight on Anissa. We love and miss you around here!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:09 pm
Still praying for all of you! And I fully expect that miracle.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Thank you SO much for the updates. All support and massive prayers are ongoing from our house to yours. Anissa’s on her way. Go get um and stay strong Peter! Doing AWESOME!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Keeping you and your family wrapped in prayer…I believe a miracle will happen, keep your faith, you’re an amazing husband Peter!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:12 pm
I am so happy to read (through tears) that she’s improving. So many people are pulling for her and your whole family.
Sending out love and prayers and positive vibes to you all,
Amanda @caffeinated_mom
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:13 pm
I believe in her, as I know you do too (as do SO MANY of us).
Thank you for letting us know how she (and you all) are doing.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:13 pm
I am yet another among the legions sending positive, healing thoughts Anissa’s way.
I know you most likely don’t have time right now for movie watching, but there is an amazing documentary about the ability of a family to rally around a loved one with a brain injury, and how that can make such an incredible difference in the outcome. It is a story of hope and strength, and if you are interested, check out ‘Life. Support. Music’.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:15 pm
Anissa- you missed Flash Forward this week… I’ll fill you in… Bryce went to Tokyo to meet his unknown ‘love’ and she got a tattoo of the Japanese symbol for “Believe”- it’s beautiful and we’re sooo getting that tattoo when you wake up!!!
You’re awesome, Peter.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:16 pm
Keep fighting Anissa!! We’re here rooting you on!! XOX
Peter, you’re amazing. Strong and so wonderful for Anissa. You’re doing so great. And! The way you’ve jumped into writing these updates on Anissa? It’s like you’re an old blogging pro. We could be more grateful for considering us during these difficult times. So, thank you.
Sam
xo
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:18 pm
Praying for you all daily! Thank you for taking time to update for all of us.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:21 pm
Having gone through this with my husband (not a stroke, but a devastating accident) it’s very hard to read (and relive a little) all you’re going through.
I took a video of the kids all taking turns saying, “I love you daddy!” and played it from the camera for Marty (hubby) - because even though he couldn’t open his eyes and see it, I held on to the hope that he could hear it. I would watch his heart rate rise while he was listening and I knew in my heart that he was in there and would be fine.
She’s there - she’s a fighter - and she WILL be fine - and so will you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:22 pm
I’m glad to hear Anissa’s making progress. I too believe we’ll see a miracle… not a doubt in my mind. Your strength and resolve are inspiring. Keep up the fight.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:23 pm
Praying for you miracle…fight on Anissa!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:23 pm
i had taken a few days off cyber world and had no idea this had happened. Will keep your family and Annisa in my prayers…Complete healing..and strength for you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:23 pm
Thinking of you and your family everyday and praying, praying, praying for your Thanksgiving miracle. Thank you for taking the time and energy to update us on your wife’s progress. I fully believe Anissa is fighting with all she has to come back to you, and am anxiously awaiting the post that says this has happened.
You take care…
Michele in Staten Island, NY
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:24 pm
I knelt in prayer yesterday and my thoughts kept going to Anissa and your entire family. Just another basic stranger connected in this massive online community and your story has resonated in my heart.
I do believe in the power of prayer….and my prayers for all of you will not cease.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:26 pm
Awesome!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:27 pm
I have been keeping her in my prayers and yes we will see a miracle this week!!! I am in agreeance! This post gave me chills it was so encouraging and beautiful!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Your families challenge should remind us all that many many more have much more on their plate than turkey this Thanksgiving. Sending healing energy and thoughts your way daily.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:28 pm
When you got to the pillowcases I lost it. God, I’m praying for her! And for you and the kids! The signs seem really good - more prayer coming……
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:31 pm
Ooooh, it’s the WORST when they mess with the breathing tube. If she’s fighting that, she’s fighting to wake up and get the damn thing out. Atta girl, Anissa, you beautiful thing, you. I love you so much.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:34 pm
So promising!! Anissa has strength so deep inside. She amazes me.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:36 pm
You people are my heroes. Blessings and prayers to you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:36 pm
Still praying. I believe in miracles.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:38 pm
Thursday is a great day for a miracle
still in prayer
~fidget
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:38 pm
Can I just tell you I never even heard of your wife until last week when all of this started and the tweets were going around last week. I even received a live telephone call from someone calling to find out if it was indeed true cause it was just such a shock. That only tells me that your wife is truly a wonderful person and there are soooooooooo many people routing for her. I am coming to know of her and your family through past posts. I am praying for you, for your strength as you go through this because you need prayer too my friend. You are a gem to keep everyone posted on how she is doing. I am praying for your wife and pray that all of the prayers that are coming through are going straight to her and giving her strength. Thank you for letting us know how she’s doing and find time to get some kind of rest when you can because I believe she is pulling off of your strength. May God Bless you both.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:38 pm
She’ll be back and harassing us all in the best way she knows how sooner than we know.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:39 pm
She is awesome. So are you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Anissa never has been one to do things the way they’re ’supposed’ to be done and thank god.
Keep fighting Anissa. We’re fighting along side you. We know you can do this.
xoxo,
Megan
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Sending your family many healing thoughts from India
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:40 pm
We are all praying SO HARD for Anissa… and your whole family.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:47 pm
This is so encouraging! You all have been in my thoughts all weekend. It’s so great to hear this news, Peter. Thanks so much for taking the time to let all of us know what’s going on.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:51 pm
Wonderful!!! Go Anissa!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:52 pm
Oh, I’m crying. GO ANISSA, GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:52 pm
God, I love you. I love your faith and your strength and your love and your willingness to share with us and lean on us and so much more I can’t articulate. Anissa, you, and the kids are the last thing on my mind when I go to sleep and the first thing on my mind when I wake up.
Won’t stop praying hard. <3
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:54 pm
A friend of mine’s husband was in a coma after a terrible accident. They had 3 kids and she said she spent all her time visiting him and saying, “John, we have 3 kids and you love them and they need you.” She brought in pictures as well and kept them in the room, in frames, in case he woke up when she wasn’t there. He finally woke up and she will tell you she knows he woke up for those kids.
Another friend of mine had a brother who was in a coma for 10 days after a car accident. They did what you did and had people coming and going. After 10 days he woke up and wasn’t expected to.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:59 pm
I’ve been a lurker on Anissa’s blogs for quite a while & don’t think I’ve ever commented. I’m not the praying sort, but she’s been in my thought & prayers since the moment I heard what happened. I have several neurological “issues” myself & am at increased risk for stroke, and my best friend is also a mother of 3 and has had 3 mini-strokes, so this just struck close to my heart. My birthday is Saturday, and all I want is for Anissa to wake up and start chewing out all the people who have been making her so uncomfortable!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:59 pm
Reading your updates and thinking of your family often. Miracles happen. Thursday (or sooner) sounds like a fine day for one.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Pete, YOU are incredible! You are doing a wonderful job! My father had a few strokes, one he was in a coma for a little over a month. They told us he would never wake up. I was holding his hand one day, told him if he could hear me, squeeze it, this was the first time he responded. He woke up and ended up being fine a short time later. She can do it, we all know she can!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:02 pm
You move me each and every time I read your posts. As one commenter said, “I believe.” — I share that sentiment.
I am praying for each and every one of you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:03 pm
Miracles are REAL. God can do ANYTHING. What a strong woman! I’ll keep praying hard!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:03 pm
I am praying for you each and every night. Praying hard for a Thanksgiving Day miracle.
She will get through this. She is amazingly strong.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:04 pm
Pete, thank you so very much for the update! We are praying so hard for Anissa here in Tampa! I am believing with you in that miracle of Anissa waking up - I just know she will! She always has been such an amazing presence and this world just can’t live without her. Big hugs & many prayers for Anissa and your precious family. We are praying you up, my friend.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:06 pm
I’m here in DC wishing there was something I could do. So I’m doing what you’ve asked and I keep thinking and praying and laughing for Anissa. She’s nothing if not feisty and funny. I know she’d want us to continue the laughter until she’s strong enough to join us again.
Please know we are out here and thinking of you and the kids too.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:07 pm
continued prayers.
the love you reflect is astounding.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:07 pm
Keep up the great work! You are doing an amazing job and it sounds like she is doing the same. You guys are in our prayers and thoughts and we believe in miracles.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:07 pm
She is such a fighter…Superwoman is for sure!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:10 pm
This is so beautiful and powerful and our prayers continue for EVERYTHING that you need which I know is for Anissa…to be awake.
Sending love and prayers…everyday, every minute.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:10 pm
I’d only popped in and read Anissa’s blog on a few ocassions. So very thankful for your updates. Keeping you and yours in my thoughts and prayers. Fight on, Anissa!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:10 pm
like a few others, i hadn’t heard of Anissa until I read about her on two of my other blogs and her story has just stuck with me. I’m sending you and your children much love and strength for such a difficult time and her much love and strength to fight the odds….
You may consider checking into Reiki. This energetic healing method can sometimes help rally more internal strength during a struggle of this sort. If I were in your area, I would offer my services for free.
Be well.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:15 pm
Praying for Anissa…and you all. Sounds so promising….keep fighting ANISSA!!!!!!!!!!! A miracle is unfolding, I just know it. Stay strong.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Pete, we are all praying for the family. All of Baylife is behind you and you know how powerful our prayer group is! We keep you and the entire family in our thoughts and prayers always. I know Anissa will fight for all she loves and cares about. thank you for keeping us updated, we are checking constantly and crave the information you are feeding us. Please keep it coming as much as you can. with love and prayer,
Lorrin
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:19 pm
We pray for every member of your family every day. Especially for Anissa, but for all of you as well. Your family is incredibly strong. The love from California is flowin’ over to you! And will continue even after your miracle happens on Thursday! Stay strong and fight on!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:19 pm
She IS a miracle!! Keep fighting Anissa!
Thanks for taking the time to update us.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Wow, I got goosebumps reading that. You are doing an amazing job, Peter. I hope more than anything your family DOES see a miracle this week!
Sending love, hope, and prayers, ALWAYS!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:20 pm
Thank you SSSSSSOOOOOOOOO much for the update Peter! I am praying for Anissa and you and your family! Wish I was close enough to be of more help even though we haven’t met.
Keep fighting Anissa!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:24 pm
incredible!! Peter, thank you so much for keeping us all up to date. Your writing is awesome, Anissa will be so proud to see all that you have said!
I am one of the many “silent” followers, have been following since soon after Peytons fight began, your cousin jayneelyn set me and a group of others on to this page. Praying for you all, and soo encouraged by all of the miracles that have been seen thus far!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:24 pm
That last part just gave me major chills! Miracles happen all the time and I can’t wait for yours! Go Anissa - fight hard lady! : )
and still praying…
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Peter, thanks for your writing. Your family is absolutely amazing, truly.
I still remember the day Anissa “adopted” Sienna, our daughter. She wrote the most beautiful post.
I KNOW Anissa will emerge strong with everyone’s support and love.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Still praying… you go, Anissa!
I know everyone is different, but I had a good friend who suffered a brain bleed last year and for 7 weeks had almost no responses (and a very poor prognosis) and then suddenly, she woke up. Other than a little difficulty with stairs, she is completely recovered now, one year later.
So I have seen a miracle, and I am with you on this one.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:33 pm
PRAYING FOR YOU.
hard.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:34 pm
Love to all you Mayhews! Every day.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:35 pm
Anissa is amazing and has an amazing family. Sending many thoughts and prayers your way. Keep fighting Anissa!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:39 pm
Thank you so much for this, Peter.
Go Anissa go!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:47 pm
I cannot get over how incredible you are, Peter and I don’t know you from boo! I read your words that silently exude all the faith and love in your heart and I am awed!! I can only hope and pray that if anyone deserves a miracle…it’s for sure the Mayhew family!!
I hesitate to admit that I have a BIL who is a neurosurgeon. He has said that full recoveries are possible, even with the limited info I gave him. I picked his brain because I could not stop thinking about your family. So you just do what you do. She’ll come home. Baby step after baby step. I believe it!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:48 pm
We’re praying.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:53 pm
Praying
All day
Everyday
Without Ceasing
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:57 pm
Good vibes and lots of prayer for you and yours…
You are really amazing! Keep fighting!!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:08 pm
I witnessed a miracle this summer with a 12 year old boy and the power of this ethereal connection called the internet to harness prayer and healing. It was a REAL one. A BIG one. (last rites x2)
I feel another one coming . . .
There will be a miracle.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:09 pm
I just know it too! There are no impossibilities in life. I believe in Anissa.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Praise God for the little things! I tear up each time I read a new post! I trust that God will do a big miracle in Anissa! Praying that she will continue to improve and that your family will stay strong through this!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:19 pm
First let me say that I am praying for Anissa and your family. I BELIEVE in miracles. Let me briefly tell you one of the many reasons why I do. Maybe it will encourage you. It’s something I share every chance I get because it is a testament of God’s power and love. In Dec. 2007 my husband of 26 yrs, in his mid 50’s and a NON smoker, was diagnosed with Stage IV lung cancer. The cancer had spread via his blood stream to other areas and he also had a malignant tumor on one of his adrenal glands. Because it had spread outside the lung, surgery wasn’t an option. He was given, at very most, 7 months to live. A 1 in 20 chance of living for 1 year. It seemed hopeless, just completely hopeless. He began aggressive treatment and we prayed, everyone we knew prayed, and my husband fought hard. To make a long story short….my husband is in complete remission. His 7 months was ‘up’ in Aug. 2008 and here we are Nov 2009 and he is still in complete remission. When I asked the doctor where we go from here, he said that he doesn’t really know because “this just doesn’t happen” and there are no “numbers” or statistics to pull from on complete remission from late stage lung cancer.
Prayer works and miracles happen. Don’t ever give up. I know you won’t. Thank you for keeping us updated. My heart goes out to all of you. Stay strong and BELIEVE.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:19 pm
Peter, thanks so much for the update. It is so encouraging to hear that she is making progress. You are doing a great job! I fully believe that Anissa’s recovery will be a miracle.
Keeping your whole family in my prayers <3
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:22 pm
Still praying, wish I was there to help.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:23 pm
Anissa can do it, and she can do it Thursday. No doubt.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:25 pm
Glad to hear things are looking up! She is a fighter and this is just one more thing that needs an ass kicking!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:28 pm
You are all working so very hard. My heart is with you, and beautiful Anissa, and praying for buckets of miracles and the strength to carry them.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:28 pm
She’s such a tough cookie and she’s fighting so hard.
Anissa darling you are a miracle. And I love you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Speaking of Tom, “Well I know what’s right, I got just one life. IN a world that keeps on pushin’ me around, but I’ll stand my ground and I won’t back down. Hey baby there ain’t no easy way out, Hey I will stand my ground. And I won’t back down.”
A miracle, to be sure. Annisa won’t back down.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:37 pm
Amazing progress!! A miracle will come!!! Stay strong and praying Anissa!!! Thanks for the update!!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:41 pm
Yea Anissa! Keep it up! Thank you so much for taking the time to keep us updated. I have and will continue praying and praying for you all.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:42 pm
If it can be done, Anissa can do it. Praying for a Thanksgiving miracle.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Peter, Thank you for keeping us posted and for sharing your faith. I also feel a miracle coming.
Dear God - our heavenly Father, Let everyone know that your greatness trumps cat scans and medical outlooks. May your infinite mercy and loving faithfulness shine forth on your blessed daughter Anissa. Awaken her. Heal her. Bring her back to her family. May all who witness your power and grace sing your praise. Amen.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:45 pm
You are so very strong Peter and truly blessed!
You have an amazing woman there that is hanging on and she has an even more amazing man by her side.
My prayers continue for you, for your family and for Anissa!! Keep fighting..it is definitely worth it!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:46 pm
Praise God!!!!
Yes, I think a miracle is currently in progress!!!
Thank you so much for updating us. We are all praying.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:47 pm
This is so very promising. Thank you for the update!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:54 pm
Thank you for keeping us updated. Sending prayers, love and hope to Anissa and you all.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:55 pm
Praying and Believing! Can’t wait for Thursday!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:56 pm
Your family is ever-present in my thoughts and prayers. I have faith that Anissa is going to pull through.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:00 pm
Keep fighting, Anissa. Keep squeezing your hands for those kiddos. Keep hanging on. You are a rockstar. You really are.
I didn’t know you much at all before this happened, but for what I saw from following you on Twitter and reading the occasional MamaPop update. I’ve been reading more of your archives since and I find you so inpsiring. I’m pulling for you. I’m really hoping I can make your (internet) acquaintance sometime soon.
Peter, thank you for the words, the updates, and for letting us in to share in Anissa’s amazingness. It means a lot to a lot of people to be able to keep up to date.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:02 pm
Will do - wish I could do more.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:03 pm
You will get your miracle. Keep doing what you’re doing and letting her rest when she needs to. She is hearing you and willing her body to wake up and it will do just that when it has healed. Unfortunately, the brain is so complex that it takes a lot of time to heal so you’re right, waiting is the hardest part.
I’m willing strength and love to Anissa from the airwaves. To you and your children as well. Stay strong and rest when you can too.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:05 pm
There is something about reading your words Peter that makes me feel like I’ve known this family my whole life. I haven’t. I’ve never meet Anissa nor did I know about Peyton until all of this happened.
I thank you for sharing your family with us. I feel like God is working through this situation and I know that he’ll never give us more than we can handle. Everything is for a reason.
It’s wonderful to see how God is answering our prayers moment by moment. Each step is a answer to prayer and a reason for rejoicing and being thankful.
We never know what tomorrow holds so today we must hold onto our blessings.
Prayers,
Alaina
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:07 pm
I’m sure I don’t pray often enough. But I have been praying for Anissa. But it struck me today as I was rereading this blog that there will be no miracle here. Wait — don’t lynch me yet!! WHEN Anissa is back to her usual self, it will be because (based on what I read of her and know of her from talking to Pete over these last several months of working together) that’s just what she does. She overcomes. She adapts. She doesn’t let anything stop her. Maybe slow her down a little but never stop. To her, getting better is a given. So WHEN she’s back to normal that won’t be the miracle. I think the miracle here is how one person seems to have touched the lives of so many, mine included, and I’ve never even met her! (Note to Pete: When Anissa is home and feeling up to it, let’s correct this deplorable situation ASAP!) I will continue my prayers for Pete and his family, and for Anissa of course. But I know she’ll be back home soon.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:09 pm
God is with her. He is with all of you. She WILL be ok. Sounds like you’ve gotta fighter on your hands! That is awesome. Omaha sending prayers and love and hugs and faith. FAITH. ONE of His best gifts. Keep it close. Amen.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:13 pm
Praise the Lord! Continuing to Pray for a Thanksgiving miracle! Thanks for the update!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:17 pm
I have never met Anissa, but I was drawn to your family through this website as my daughter, too, was in the fight for her life as she was diagnosed with medulloblastoma, a malignant brain tumor. We are praying for you and Anissa as well as your children. I find myself checking this website many, many times throughout the day looking for new updates on her. Thank you for updating the site and keeping us informed so we can pray more specifically for her needs. And yes, Peter, even though I don’t know you either, you are stronger than you think!!!!!
Praying for your Thanksgiving miracle,
Donna Daniels
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:18 pm
Positive energy and prayers continue over here. She’s lucky to have you.
Thanks for the update and God Bless.
Kim
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:20 pm
This is amazing. See? You ARE strong. And her, oh dear lord, she’s a powerhouse.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:22 pm
So glad to hear she’s fighting … I would expect nothing less!
Sending lots of love, prayers and positive thoughts …
Winks & Smiles,
Wifey
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:23 pm
Another stranger here, hoping and praying!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:28 pm
thank you for the updates. We are praying and believing. Tell her that if she gets better I will personally wear a robot chicken costume for her enjoyment.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:30 pm
I got chills reading this….Thursday!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:32 pm
And here’s another stranger praying.
M
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:35 pm
DOOD! She flicked you with her thumb!!! That is so awesome and, well, I’m not afraid to celebrate these little moments with you guys.
She’s in there.
And she’s pissed you are going to mess up the bills.
Go Anissa Go! Go Anissa Go! Go Anissa Go!
I’ll keep praying and cheering each and every day.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:40 pm
Peter:
I am so happy, everyday I can’t wait to hear another miracle!
Praying and believing!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:40 pm
I am already thankful for having had the opportunity to know of Anissa online, through her tweets and blogs, but am looking forward to an update on Thursday to give me a little extra reason to be thankful!
We all have SO MUCH to be thankful for, and we are reminded of it daily…at least, I know I am…
For Anissa, I am thankful for YOU, Peter, for her to have you as her strongest supporter, through this all.
I wish for you and your family, a week full of positive progress and a special Thanksgiving gift.
I truly believe Anissa IS a SuperWoman.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:41 pm
I have chills — we are absolutely going to see a miracle, and SOON. Praying for Anissa and your whole family. Hugs!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:42 pm
I am wishing and hoping so hard for you and Anissa right now. I would say that I wished I had read her before this with more regularity, but I know she’ll be back and better than ever and soon. She’s a fighter, and that much I know.
I’ll be doing my part and sending good thoughts from Philadelphia.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:45 pm
I believe.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:46 pm
Go, Anissa, Go!
Last year, my husband and I were pelted with the news of a best friend’s unexpected massive strokes. We were so scared, hopeless and devastated. BUT…Not only did he live through it, he’s the same person he always was (minus some minor fine motor skills that continue to improve). Of course, living through that changes you, but just like my friend, Anissa seems like the type of person who can deal. Have Hope! TRUST ME!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:52 pm
Keep on fighting Anissa! We’re all cheering you on even if you can’t hear us or see us! God knows what is going on in your body and He can fix it. He can make “all things new.” Peter keep the faith and know that we are praying for you and the kids! Phil. 4:13
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:53 pm
Ok…Thursday it is! Praying that you and your family have one extra HUGE reason to be thankful this year.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:59 pm
Read “My Stroke of Insight” - it will help tremendously. Especially with the experience you’ll have as your wife recovers. Which she will.
My mom had a massive stroke a year ago. It has been a huge marathon and still is. But don’t believe folks who say the real recovery is in the first 3 months/6 months/one year. She’s still recovering language and motor skills. Cognitive thinking. I belive that the accupuncture done within the first 2 weeks of the stroke was instrumental in her recovery. In China it is all they use to treat stroke survivors and their recovery rates are comparable to US recovery rates.
I am praying a prayer of intention - Anissa will make a full recovery from her stroke and will re-join the world a wiser more complete person because of it. And you are the glue that will hold her together and your family together. Make sure you stay hydrated and as rested as possible!
Amen.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:11 pm
A miracle is happening as I type. My mom always told me as a kid: Just believe and you shall receive. I believe, Peter.
Now plaster her room with as many pictures as you can.
Hoping, praying, believing.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:13 pm
Wow! I just got goosebumps reading your post Peter. What wonderful news!! I have never personally seen the power of prayer but this has truly made me a believer. I am looking forward to hearing more updates, esp on Thursday when she wakes up asking for some pumpkin pie. I will keep praying for forward progress and healing.
Love,
Ivy Helton
PS I really think you are channeling Anissa right now, you writing is amazing..I know Anissa will be impressed when she wakes up and reads this. She may have some competition!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:16 pm
Thinking about you all and praying for Anissa’s full recovery!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:16 pm
She’s absorbing your positivity, all of the thoughts and prayers and intermixing them in with her own inherent strength. She’s full of surprises, that one - miracle might be too small a word. Still thinking hard for you all.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:18 pm
I totally believe in miracles. I had mine and it awakened a faith in me that wasn’t there before.
Still praying for Anissa and your whole family.
She needs to wake up and come back to make faces at me across a room at events… she’s one of my favorite “bad kids” who can make me laugh and smile at any time.
She needs to come back and tell you that you’d better not get used to being the blogging star in the family.
She needs to look at the sheer number of comments and tell us all that we’re crazy if we think she’s going to read ALL of these!
Hang in there Peter - and thank you for keeping us in touch.
Come on Thursday!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:20 pm
You will remind in my prayers. God will perform a miracle.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:22 pm
Peter;
Your consideration for the many people waiting for that Thursday miracle alongside you is laudable. Anissa has made an impact on the community that is clear by the sheer size of the response.
But it’s true that this is more of a marathon than a sprint. Your down-to-earth and honest writing style is a fitting tribute to Anissa. She would be proud of you I think.
Praying in Texas. Looking for a miracle.
Kami
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Just SOOOOOOOO incredible!!!! Anissa girl — you are SUCH a fighter. You amaze us all.
Thank you so much Peter for keeping us all updated. We are so grateful!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:39 pm
You don’t know me and for all I know, never get this far in the comments, but I feel driven to share. My 11 year old niece slipped into a coma due to encephilitis on December 5, 1999. And, oh how hard the waiting is. We just knew we’d have a Christmas miracle, though. We didn’t. But on New Year’s Eve, 1999, she began the incredibly slow, arduous swim back to the surface. Long story short-she was back in school (albeit part-time) by March and is now a senior at Christopher Newport University.
The bottom line is- 2 steps forward, 1 step back. And the waiting is unlike anything. Try to stay in the moment and not to project into the future.
My deepest prayers are with you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:39 pm
I’m LOVING the updates and just know a miracle is working in Anissa right now. She IS a miracle.
Steph
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:40 pm
I’ve just circled Thursday on my calendar. See you then Anissa.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:42 pm
What a wonderful update! That girl’s a fighter!
Thanks for keeping us up to speed!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:42 pm
Sending prayers and love and thinking of you all the time!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:45 pm
You are so smart in how you are bringing her back. I would have never thought to try showing a fist and opening it. You are brilliant.
Sometimes seeds under the ground are quiet before the break the surface. I’m hoping that Anissa continues to progress with the timing that will bring about the best recovery for her.
Much love to you and yours-
Bridget
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Peter, I’m praying for all of you every day. Anissa sounds like a strong woman.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Peter - You are amazing and a wonderful husband, father and friend to this community who loves your wife and is praying for her and for all of you.
Thank you so much for the updates. The prayer circle continues to grow…
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:59 pm
While the waiting may be the hardest part, I also hear “I won’t back down” as I read your post Peter.
I’ve found quite a lot of strength myself with that particular Petty anthem and I bet you will too.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:02 pm
I’m amazed by the strength and continue to pray!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:10 pm
she’s lucky to have you…
keep fighting, we are out here thinking of all of you
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:18 pm
Haven’t stopped and won’t stop praying!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:21 pm
We are praying with you for complete recovery for Anissa. Our love and thoughts are with you, Anissa and the children. Thanks for the online updates here. I read them to Dad. I have referred other older Mayhew family members to this website. Some are internet challenged, so have called some. When you have a minute check out http://www.facebook.com/Sara’sStory about Tim Culver’s wife Sara who also had a stroke. I think it may be helpful to you. As far as scans go, I read that PET scans of the brain are better than CT scans because they measure changes in the brain as it is functioning, (so it shows responses to stimuli), while CT scans are pure static pictures of the physical brain. All in good time. God’s time. Love and big hugs to you all.
Blessings and prayers,
Pat & Dad
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:23 pm
Thank you so much for the update, Peter. She is going to come back to you. Much love to you all. Thinking of you often.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:25 pm
Thanks for the continued updates, Peter. I am SO glad to hear about the latest. They’re just pure and total AWESOMENESS! You all remain in my thoughts.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:45 pm
Been hoping for good news all weekend! So happy for you guys! I’m in awe of you and your family, of course you are wonderful! You are Anissa’s family!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:53 pm
Prayers and healing to your wife and family
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:10 pm
You have a great way with words, Peter.
Thanks for posting the update. How encouraging to read of those baby steps forward.
Glad you aand the children have lots of support.
Praying for Anissa/you all.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:19 pm
Smile. I WILL ask her myself.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:28 pm
Fantastic progress!!! Praying hard for that miracle…looks like she’s well on her way!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:31 pm
Thank you. Love to you and your family. May these baby steps grow into larger ones. The road is long, but we’re here for the haul, praying for all of you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:40 pm
I’m looking forward to the day when Anissa is posting again, telling us all about this experience and what it was like to go through it and come through it. And so grateful that you are keeping us posted along the way until that day comes.
All good thoughts and hopes for healing coming from this direction . . . hold on to your beautiful family, and keep writing when you can.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:42 pm
I love that answer: “You can ask my wife. She’ll be awake on THursday.” Man, the strength of your family. Just amazing. Anissa, you’re doing it girl. Keep going!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:44 pm
I am engaged and obsessed with every little detail so thank you for keeping us updated. Please please keep it coming because it helps us all feel like we’re a part of it. Pizza Hut is coming your way.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 6:58 pm
You’re doing an amazing job…my husband would never think to try to stimulate my mind using the things you have used. I believe Anissa will make a full recovery and I can’t wait for you to have your wife back.
We all miss her!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Wonderful news!!! Praying for that miracle!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Hello Peter,
I am pretty sure I saw an address where we could send a card to for Anissa but for the life of me I cannot find it.
Would it be possible to get it again either on an update or via email, thanks in advance
Hugs to all of you from Australia
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:14 pm
Thank you for these updates, for taking the time to let us know how she’s doing. I’m a long way away from there but am sending lots of white healing light. My Dad used to send this to me when I wasn’t feeling well and it always seemed to work, somehow. I’m sure her room is completely bathed in light from all over the world.
You’re an amazing man, she’s lucky to have you. The pillowcases made me cry - what a wonderful, perfect idea.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:20 pm
You are all in my thoughts! I wish there was a “right thing” to say but I can’t seem to find one!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:23 pm
So glad to hear there is progress! I am praying for you, Anissa, the family, and the network of people helping you.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:43 pm
I love this post. You are amazing! I love all the things you are doing to make this miracle happen. I can only imagine how difficult this situation is. She’s a fighter! And, she’s such a beautiful part of this community. I’m excited to read more about her progress and recovery!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:47 pm
Thanks for updating the world on her progress. It really helps those of us who don’t know Anissa that she still is fighting and needs to be prayed for.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 7:58 pm
Wow. This is truly amazing stuff. Keep trusting and believing, and looking for her. She’s there. I believe for your miracle!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 8:01 pm
This is great news! I’m praying for Anissa, and all of you!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 8:02 pm
I know she is dying to get out, and let you all know she IS IN THERE!!! It’s so great that you’re doing the things you are to help her, and it’s amazing how she is fighting. Well-not really that amazing considering who we are talking about because she IS AMAZING!! And we already knew that. I’m glad the kids got some reinforcements-and you’ve got plenty of people supporting you too Peter. We are still praying for ceasing for Anissa’s complete healing!!
In Christ’s Love~
Rhonda
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 8:13 pm
I believe as well-she is a fighter! We’re still praying.
Thank you Peter for keeping us updated-you are so strong-thank you for keeping us updated!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 8:16 pm
We’re just going to keep
Praying Until Something Happens…
Thank you so much for the updates - God be with you all
XO
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 8:36 pm
Wow, how beautiful and powerful your post is. I hope you find some comfort writing those words and knowing that all of us — on the other end of these screens — are praying for you and your family.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:02 pm
thanks so much for the updates and the encouraging news. still thinking of y’all and praying for y’all often.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:27 pm
#prayersforanissa
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:27 pm
Sending positive thoughts Anissa’s way!
Much love.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:28 pm
You are all in my thoughts and prayers! Stay strong!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:29 pm
Big, bold, prayers to you Anissa. All the time. XOX
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:30 pm
I think about you guys every day.
Thank you so much for the updates!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:34 pm
another person that has added her to a prayer list. Praying that she has strength in these coming days
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:38 pm
You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I believe in miracles and you deserve one. Keep going and know that there are so many people out here that care about you and your family.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:40 pm
I found you through Heather Spohr and have been checking in frequently. I’m so glad to hear of Anissa’s progress and will continue to keep you all in my thoughts!
Laurie from TX
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Thank you for the update. What encouraging news! Will continue to lift all of you up in prayer. There’s a powerhouse inside beautiful Anissa!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:48 pm
amazing- thanks for sharing with all of us. sending you lots of love and prayers.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 10:10 pm
got to your site from Heather, Mike and Maddie. My prayers are with you and your family.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 10:26 pm
Hugs and prayers are on their way. I believe in miracles. ~ Yaya Yaya’s Changing World
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 10:40 pm
Praying and I have asked my blogger friends to pray as well. She will make it through this. -x-
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 10:50 pm
I am hoping for a miracle too. Although I know that if it’s not by Thursday…it will come she is fighting.
AND YOU? You Peter are amazing and so strong. Keep it up. She is fighting for you too. HUGS
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 10:51 pm
I believe, Peter, and Anissa is a fighter - she WILL be that miracle.
You’re all in my thoughts, and thank you, thank you so much for these updates.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 10:58 pm
Thank you Peter for keeping all of us updated!
I can’t say I’m at all surprised to hear you describe how Anissa is fighting. That woman is more alive than any person I have ever met!
Sending all of you every bit of hope and light I can!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:04 pm
You are doing everything right! Keep it up.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:11 pm
sending prayers and thoughts from Georgia…
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:12 pm
Still praying everyday!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:15 pm
Prayers to your family! We’re thinking of you all…
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:21 pm
hi,
i read about your story from the spohrs’ blog… just wanted to let you know that i am praying. the God of this gigantic universe…who governs time and creation hears our cries. i pray He gives you strength, may others uplift you and your family with immediate needs… may blessings be abundant on this thanksgiving.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 11:54 pm
[...] Anissa’s blog to keep her friends and the Internet community posted on her condition. His post from earlier today brought tears to my eyes. As I selfishly sat and lamented about my life and the goings on [...]
on Nov 24th, 2009 at 12:27 am
What a story she’s going to have to tell. And she’ll phrase it in that perfect Anissa way that makes us all laugh and cry at the same time.
Praying for your family.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 1:22 am
I know you see how many people comment here, but every blog I open has a post asking for prayers for Anissa. There are so many people praying for her and having their prayer circles pray for her. Feel the warmth of those prayers and let them envelope you and your family. Let your friends and family help. Take care of yourself, so you can be strong for her, too. Miracles happen every day, and today - or Thursday - is no exception.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 1:28 am
Such fabulous news, and just what I expect from her. What an amazing family you are.
Continuing to send love and prayers.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 1:41 am
so encouraging.
the prayers continue.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 2:28 am
keep fighting! am chanting for you; i am the buddhist…it all works; prayer, chanting…sending you positive thoughts and wishing you a good holiday, i know anissa will be home to celebrate soon. xo, amanda railla
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 2:48 am
i’m not a praying kinda woman, but i keep thinking, thinking REAL hard at Anissa, and i think you’re right about that miracle.
love and strength and comfort to your whole family.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 4:13 am
Praying for you all and believing with you for that Thanksgiving Miracle!
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 4:18 am
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 4:22 am
Hoping and praying for you all.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 5:41 am
Hey Pete,
You’re doing great. Anissa would be so proud of your wonderful writing and the work you’re putting in keeping everyone updated. Most of all though she’d be proud of the love and care you’re showing Nathaniel, Rachel and Peyton. Please don’t forget to take care of yourself as well.
I always used to tell her I could easily waste a half hour between getting the kids to school and going to work just reading her posts and the comments. (I SO should have been doing other things but she always drew me back !!) These days it would take a lot longer reading all the comments I really can’t keep up. But I guess it’s a fantastic testament to how everyone feels about your lovely wife - a friend to so many.
Just in case you don’t realise, people are still commenting on the Caringbridge site as some of them can’t access this one. There is a lady called Lisa Greenaker (must be one of Anisssa’s old friend’s from Brandon) who is writing long stories that I think Anissa would love to hear. I hope you are able to read some of the other comments to her as well. There must be so many names she would recognise of old friends who are all rooting for her.
I will keep praying hard for her and the rest of you from this end. I think with everyone around the world we’ve got you covered for just about 24 hours a day!
Sending lots of love to you all.
Dawn in England.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 7:43 am
It was awesome to read this post today. I am rooting for all of you.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 8:20 am
I believe in miracles and for that I am praying.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 8:48 am
You are all constantly in our prayers. I love all the reminders you are giving Anissa. They sound like just what she would want to see and hear. Anissa has always been an inspiration to everyone she meets and you are showing us the man behind the woman is one big reason why! Tell her the Tuckers love her and are sending many many prayers her way!
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 10:14 am
I was a close friend of Anissa’s back in the 90’s. We were “fun friends”..we worked together, went to clubs together and hung out and had great girl talk times. I heard about Anissa’s condition from another recently re-acquainted friend, Amanda. I am sad I haven’t gotten to add Anissa to my facebook friends and reconnect with her. But all I can say is I being a mom of 2 young children–know that what she is going thru is heartbreaking. I also believe in miracles. I remember than Anissa is a fighter-a super strong willed person who will not ever, ever let go of what she wants.I am sure she will get through this and be an even stronger person for it. (IF anyone could possibly be that strong). Anyway..big kudos to her husband for writing this. I really see that Anissa married a good man and I am so happy for her. I also can’t wait to talk to her once she is healed and able to talk. I just pray for her…and trust me, I have had my fair share of tears over this. It’s not fair….Anissa is loved and needed! I will continue to pray and hope for a miracle…
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 11:10 am
found out about anissa thru heather spohr’s site and was reminded thru mommy wants vodka ~ just wanted to tell you i am praying and am keeping your beautiful wife and family in my heart and prayers. [i am a future ICU nurse] i am also holding each of the medical/nursing/hospital staff in my heart and prayers for their compassion and expertise, to use what gifts god has given and to take good care of your love.
god bless you all…
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 11:49 am
Love, hugs, support, positive energy, and spreading the word… We are doing it all.
I just get this feeling… I’m not sad when I read about Anissa, I’m proud of her. I’m proud of you. I am so overwhelmingly proud of your family. I think things will be okay. Anissa is an amazing woman, capable of amazing things. She will surprise us all.
Love,
Mandy, Brock and Ronan.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
Long time lurker, infrequent commenter.
I just want to let you know that I have been and will continue to pray for you, Anissa, the kids, and your extended families.
Peace and love.
<3
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 3:18 pm
Still praying! Thank you soooo much for the updates. I know you, or her for that matter, don’t know me from Adam, but the way you and your wife tell your story I feel as if I am right there with you. You guys are AMAZING!
Keeping the prayers coming and here’s to believing in miracles!
Much love to you and your family!
~Jana from Germantown, OH
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
so amazing. i keep praying. i passed your prayer request on to the girls in my bible study on Wednesday mornings (at a church that i don’t attend on Sundays). but one of the ladies e-mailed me and told me that Pastor Tom asked for prayer for you and your family in front of the whole congregation (all 3 services on Sunday), so there are so many prayers going up for you and your family right now!
i am totally missing Anissa’s tweets during “Glee” on Wednesday nights. it’s just not the same without her
i can’t wait for more good news. praying hard in Indiana!
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
You know you will have to buy her a Sam’s Size Box of Cleanexes when she reads these posts! You are doing a wonderful, A+ + job of being the man she needs you to be!
You guys are in my prayers!
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
<3
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