Crazy zany nearly all girl sleep over with pizza and late night movies: $50
Having a quiet evening in a drafty private hospital room with your wife: Priceless.
I said it a while back: The kids are the key. Tonight, my son proved me right.
In all of this, we’ve talked about the flickers of light/recognition/clarity/possibility/hope we see. Tonight we saw a pretty big ray.
Friday night, thanks to a pair of incredible moms, the girls had a sleep over pajama party. They had fun. They got to stay up late and watch cool movies. They giggled themselves into a tizzy. They milked an imaginary cow on the kitchen floor. At one point, Peyton had a pretty big emotional outburst of frustration. Basically she let off some steam and a tree in my yard now has less bark. It’s good for her to get that out. She needed it and Sandi recognized that and helped her vent. I’ll get her some one-on-one daddy time today.
So, while all of that was going on, I took Nathaniel up to the hospital.
Last night, I showed him the pillow incident, just trying to ease him in. He liked it. We talked about it some.
We drove up to the hospital Friday afternoon. I kept asking him in different ways if he had any questions, or wanted to talk about anything. We talked about how engines work. We talked about what he wanted to be when he grows up. This week it’s a surgeon. We talked about what superchargers do to engines. We talked about school. He got to gas up the car. We stopped and ate at Applebees. Dinner conversation was light as well. I warned him a couple of times that mom may not react to you. I explained that the important thing is that she hears you. So, when you go in there, just tell her you love her and are praying for her and can’t wait til she comes home. Or words to that effect. He’s a great kid, he really is. He takes it all in.
The drive from the restaurant was pretty funny. We sang parts of the “star trekkin” song and talked about the intricacies of our favorite video games.
When we pulled into the parking lot, he looked a little pale. I told him to relax and to breathe, and reminded him again that if she didn’t respond to him, it was ok.
I was SO nervous about this. I worried that she wouldn’t respond to him, and it would crush him. The one thing he’s been thinking about for the past 25 days is his mom. What if she just laid there? What if she opened her eyes, but didn’t acknowledge him? How the heck would that affect him? I re-iterated it again when we got off the elevator. I made sure he knew his presence was the most important.
Anissa was asleep when we came in. We sat her up and started talking to her some. She very slowly opened her eyes and looked at Dawn, then me, and then Nathaniel spoke.
He just said, “Hi mom. I love you”.
I told him he should try louder.
He repeated it louder this time.
She turned to him, reached over, grabbed him, pulled him close, and kept kissing his head and cheek. She stroked the back of his head. She held him tight for a good 5 minutes with her left arm. The whole time, she was looking at me and tearing up. So were Dawn and I. There was no randomness about that act. It was an act of a mom who hasn’t seen her son in nearly a month, other than pictures.
We asked her if she minded sharing the bed with Nathaniel. She did her best to scoot over and give him room.
All in all, we had maybe 20 or so minutes with her, before she passed out again, but what a 20 minutes.
When it was over, I walked Nathaniel down to the car so he and Dawn could go back to the pajama party. He kept asking when he could come again. He wants to help.
As soon as we get her someplace safer than where she’s at, the kids will be visiting regularly. We just don’t know when we’re moving, or to where.
So, after all the excitement, I went back up to the room and spent a quiet night with the wife. We didn’t do much, but that’s pretty much how we like it.
on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:32 am
So happy that things are moving in a positive direction. Thinking of you every day.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:33 am
Ok, I’m crying. So so awesome.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:36 am
I know I just keep saying “awesome” but that’s what this is. Awesome.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:37 am
I’m crying too. My heart and prayers are still with you guys.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:39 am
I’ve been following this story a bit, and I’m so happy to hear Anissa is responsive! Her son must be so thrilled that he had that effect on his mom, the mom-son connection is a beautiful, powerful thing! I’m praying for a quick recovery for you Anissa!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:39 am
Love is an incredible thing. I’m just completely overjoyed with emotion for you guys. What a big thing to happen. Keep it up Anissa, ALL of us want a hug from you!
Love with all my heart,
Lori
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:39 am
Nathaniel is the kind of little boy I want my sons to grow up to be like. When he interacted with my kids, he was so patient, and loving, and so genuinely sweet. You rarely meet kids his age with such wisdom and kindness.
I’m so glad Anissa got to love on her little boy for a while. You’re doing awesome, Peter.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:40 am
Wonderful news! Praying that the rays continue to shine and grow….
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:43 am
That is such wonderful news. I can imagine the tears of joy watching Anissa reacting to Nathaniel’s visit. I have tears of joy just reading about it. Keep fighting, Anissa. Keep fighting!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:47 am
I am so happy for you all!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:49 am
Peter! What an awesome experience for Nathaniel! He will never forget it! I know they were both overjoyed to see each other- I am glad it was such a profound step for them both. We are still praying for all of you at church-for Anissa’s complete healing (in God’s own time), for the kids to have as normal a life as possible-yet still get to be involved as much as possible with Anissa’s recovery, for your strength-energy-patience-discernment-but most of all I am THANKING GOD for His grace and mercy in your family’s lives!! I have a feeling His plan for Anissa’s life goes far beyond what any of us could ever imagine! I am so glad to be a witness!
In Christ’s Love~
Rhonda
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:49 am
So exciting. I’m so glad for all of you that you were able to have that time, that she responded so well.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:49 am
Yay!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:55 am
What an amazing thing.
I am so glad that she was able to respond to her little man, and I am so thankful that he was able to get some loving from his Mom.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:05 am
I love starting Saturday with news like this! Thanks for sharing.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:31 am
WONDERFUL!!!!!!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:31 am
Thank you, God. That is amazing news, and I’m so happy to hear it.
And thank you again, Peter, for keeping us updated and sharing your family with us.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:40 am
welling up with tears of joy. Continued blessings to your family xo
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:46 am
This brought tears to my eyes.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:47 am
What an amazing family you are. You are in all my prayers.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:49 am
I am so happy for you, your son, and Anissa that she was able to react to him being there like that. What a great start to everyone’s weekend. Go Anissa! You are doing great.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:53 am
A mothers love for her children and their love for her is moving mountains. Many prayers for continued progress and baby steps towards recovery. Hugs to all of you!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:54 am
I just read this with my little boy on my lap and started crying so hard I scared him. There is nothing, NOTHING more powerful than a mother’s love
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:55 am
That’s so amazing and I’m so happy for Nathaniel. Way to go Anissa!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:58 am
I’m in tears, but they’re extremely happy tears for you guys. That is amazing.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
I’m bawling. Beautiful. Amazing. Wonderful.
Freakin’ awesome.
<3
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Thank you, thank you, thank you! Tears are flowing now. Our prayers will continue for you, your family, and our dear friend.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
What a wonderful way to start my day today. Thank you for sharing this Peter.
Go Anissa!! We love you!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:07 pm
Oh my goodness the tears. I knew this is what she needed. So many prayers being answered.
Steph
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:08 pm
Crying happy tears! Go Anissa!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Moved to tears again. Thank you for sharing this and reminding us all of the power of love.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Tearing up a little. So happy for you all that Anissa’s progress continues. Thank you for the updates!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Your words brought tears to my eyes. Praying for Anissa & the family.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
That is the most beautiful thing I have read in forever. Anissa is incredible.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:16 pm
Way to Go Anissa!!! You keep showing everyone you are not down and out - just resting and recuperating. So, so in tears and proud of the incredible, strong, loving mother Anissa is! She is a true hero in my eyes
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
What a great thing for Nathaniel. And Anissa. And you.
Tears here as well. Love you guys!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:20 pm
Absolutely awesome. I’m so happy for Nathaniel and all of you.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:20 pm
I can’t even imagine what it felt like to her to see her son and to finally touch him and love on him. You are all amazing. Simply put.
Continuing to pray!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
There is nothing more powerful than the love a mother has for her babies. What a beautiful and encouraging moment. I will continue to pray. Go Anissa!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
I’m crying happy tears over here for you guys. I’m so happy that she was able to show Nathaniel her love.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:23 pm
So thrilled. And crying.
Go, ‘Niss, GO!!!
You are an amazing husband & father, Peter.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
WOO HOO!!! As a mother, this made me cry of course, imagining what it must have meant to her to finally lay her hands on her boy again. And it must have been amazing for you to see and for Nathaniel to feel. Thank you for sharing this incredible moment with all of us.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
That sounds like and amazing Friday night!
Tears of happiness all around… and prayers for more improvement every day!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
So wonderful. This story is making me cry. She must miss them, huh? How wonderful for you to take him in. Amazing.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
I think of you every day. I believe in your strength. I know you are going to pull through this.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Crying over here. SO awesome.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Happy tears as well over here. I just wanted to share this story with you Peter, if you have time to read. It’s quite an inspirational one about a woman in my mom’s town who had a severe stroke a year ago and is now about to carry the Olympic torch. http://www.yorkregion.com/article/100592
Don’t “know” you, but I am praying for your family. I KNOW this is going to work out well in time.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
That’s amazing! I’m so happy for Nathaniel!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:48 pm
Peter, I work in health care. I’ve been an occupational therapist for 20 years. And when you work in health care, you tend to build an emotional wall so that the horrible things you sometimes see that have happened to people don’t make you upset.
Y’all just broke down that wall and I’m crying like a baby. WTG Nathaniel!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 12:56 pm
I’m just a big hairy bloke who’s getting all teary right now.
You must be so proud of your son. Love to you all from a complete stranger.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
This made me cry some big happy tears.
Your family is incredible. Every last one of them.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
Crying…tears of joy and of knowing that mama feeling of loving up her boy…Amazing. All of you.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:20 pm
Each time I log in here I get more & more hopeful for Anissa. Having worked in a hospital for 11 years, and then advocating for my elderly parents for over a decade until their deaths at age 77 and 83 respectively, I concur with the other comments here about getting up in the face of the medical staff DAILY, or even HOURLY if necessary. They will NOT advocate for you, or for Anissa.
And Peter, it’s so totally okay if you need to focus on your kids and your wife, instead of being the squeaky wheel right now. I’m quite certain Anissa has a horde of people who would line up to advocate their guts out for Anissa. Don’t be afraid to ask for &/or accept their help.
Meanwhile, you’re doing everything right. You’re the best dad & husband a woman could ask for from where I’m sitting. The 10 feet tall & bullet proof kind! Anissa is beaming w/ pride deep down inside her quiet-for-now body, she just is.
Prayers and love, as always.
@jasperblu
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
WOW! Random act? Do they really think the kisses of a mother could be a random act? There is no mistaking the love of a mother for her child. I am so impressed with everything you do and how you do it. Nathaniel is very brave and I’m sure seeing her children will do wonderful things for her. I wonder if seeing Peyton in a hospital setting wouldn’t get her emotions up and move her to speak? That setting would have a lot of memories but I guess it could be painful for her as well.
You are the expert here…I’m going to go play with my son. You’ve inspired me to get off the computer and enjoy him. Thank you!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
I’m praying for you still. Wishing you the best this season!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
Sobbing after reading that, but in such an overwhelmingly happy and hopeful way. I’m so glad that both Nathaniel and Anissa got to share some time together. Wow!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
I’m tearing up right now. For you, for Nathaniel, For Anissa. What a beautiful wonderful 20 minutes for all of you!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
Even in her darkest hour, she continues to inspire so many people. There is no comparison to a mother’s love.
Keep fighting FOR her and she’ll keep fighting. She will conquer.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
How fantastic!!! Those are 20 minutes of his life that he will never forget.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 1:56 pm
My chest aches for you and your family. How beautiful that Anissa responded in such a wonderful way to seeing her son. It just shows you the power of a mother’s love…fierce, strong and undeniable.
Prayers and best wishes to you all.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:00 pm
Continuing ot pray and so happy to see this update.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
That made me cry…stay strong and we’ll continue to pray…
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
awesome.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Like everyone else reading this, I’m crying. Bawling. I’m so happy for you and Nathaniel right now. That is the best thing I’ve heard all week.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
I’m so glad there was recognition, and the hug, and the tears!! I’m praying for endurance, faith, and peace for your family. Anissa, keep fighting!!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
I am so happy to read this - it makes me cry, too. As a mother, I can only imagine the emotion your wife was having. You are such a good husband and a good father to those kids. Keep at it - you’re doing great. Hang in there.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
Oh, what a wonderful moment that must have been for both Nathaniel and Anissa. Still praying hard for all of you and sending heaps of healing thoughts to Anissa.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
Oh.my.goodness. I am completely bawling. How incredible and amazing! WOW!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
What a tribute to you both that you’ve raised such an amazing kid. I’m so glad they were able to have this moment. Even if you’re making me cry on my keyboard.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
I have chills … what an amazing moment!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
Oh my, what a perfect story. I can just imagine it all in my head, and it’s beautiful.
So so so praying.
xoxo
-Arianne
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
oh the tears…tears of joy and tears of knowing that bond that a mother and child have…it’s magical and healing.
xoxo
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:52 pm
Very moving. Moms with their babies, nothing can stand in the way. Prayers for more moments like these and continued strength.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 2:59 pm
Thank you for sharing such intimate family moments with us.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 3:18 pm
beautiful
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
Amazing!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 3:55 pm
5 yrs ago I was in a hospital in Florida recouperating from surgery. I had no health insurance and no rehab would take me. I was supposed to leave the hospital after 4 days but day 5 and 6 rolled around and I was panicking. One day I was complaining to a nurse that I would probably be there forever.
20 minutes later a social worked walked in and said “I couldnt help overhearing you when I walked by your room.” (??) She found me a rehab and made a deal for $125 for 6 days.
It was a miracle to me and every time I get worried about anything, I remember that sometimes things are working out and you don’t even know it!
It will happen for Anissa. Don’t worry.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 3:59 pm
My Momma heart is crying, but with happy tears, to read of Anissa’s reaction to her son. So, so happy to hear she is improving. Thank you for taking the time and energy to update us on the progress. You take care.
Thinking of you & your family,
Michele in Staten Island, NY
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 4:30 pm
that is so awesome for Nathaniel and everyone, brought tears to my eyes. Anissa, we are praying for you everyday and sending you loads of hugs
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
Absolutely fabulous, Peter! So glad to hear of Anissa’s continued progress. Lots more good thoughts and energies to Anissa, you and the kids.
Be blessed
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 5:03 pm
I am crying reading this amazing awesomeness. I am thinking of Anissa and your family every day. So glad to read this.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 5:13 pm
My husband is asking why I am crying. I can’t speak. I am so overwelmed with joy and amazement. Thank you God for constant miracles! Keep em coming!!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 5:24 pm
Could barely read through the tears. AMAZING!!! I’m so happy for Nathaniel and Anissa, and you! Wonderful wonderful news.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
What a wonderful, amazing update. And what a wonderful, amazing son you and Anissa have. Good job Peter! My heart to you and your family.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
It’s so like Anissa to be alert at exactly the moment that Nathaniel needed her. As always, praying for you all.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 5:57 pm
Thankful that his visit was so well received. Continuing my prayers with fervor!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
i am totally crying right now. I’ve read all of this and my heart has ached for you and your family. I’ve marveled at all of your strength. But I’ve kept it together. Until this one. What an amazing story. What an amazing woman! Way to go!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 6:43 pm
What a wonderful brave loving boy. It’s hard to type through tears, and like so many others I’m also tearing up. Every new post brings hope and progress in stronger flavours.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 6:44 pm
I am sitting here with tears in my eyes. How wonderful for your son - for you - and for Anissa.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
EBAY has tons of tape recorders. Check them out because you will never get what you are looking for with digital unless you do a video camera, even then, it’s touch and go with that stuff.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 7:17 pm
I should start by saying that I heard about your wife a few weeks back on another blog I follow. I won’t claim to understand how you and your kids feel, but I imagine it must be one of the hardest things a family could experience. I am so happy for you and your family! I was in tears reading your post! Sounds like you delivered the best medicine yet! I am sure mommy made her son’s day! Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers and hoping for yet more awesome updates like this one.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 7:21 pm
We serve a MIGHTY GOD!!!!
Pete, I sit with tears in my eyes. Your writing makes me feel as if I was there in that hopsital room witnessing this wonderful miracle. God is in control!!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 8:00 pm
Wow!! As I sit here in tears, I realize how blessed we all are to have such a loving God!!
You are touched, and we all know Anissa is touched and your children are so blessed..
I continue to pray for God to shine his glory upon you, your family and above all Anissa.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 8:03 pm
You are wise. If your kids are up for it and can handle it, I agree that they will be her best medicine. I don’t know Anissa - had never heard of your family until your story was linked to on another blog I read - but I’ve been captivated and following along prayerfully ever since. I am a mommy - and I’m happily married and from a close family. But, the only person I can imagine pushing myself through Hell and back for is my daughter. I teared up reading this. Absolutely a beautiful moment you captured so eloquently with words.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 8:12 pm
I don’t even know you but I am sitting her with tears streaming down my face. I am soooooo happy for all of you. Kids are so resiliant, and much more capable of things then we give them credit for. Your son sounds like an amazing young man. You must be so proud of him. Keeping you all in my prayers.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
Fabulous report!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 9:25 pm
I am just a puddle now…..wow…..I will continue my prayers for Anissa!! Thanks for the updates–Hang in there!!
Sunnie
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 9:28 pm
You are now on a journey, well under way. I’m going to make you a small bet: Anissa will recover almost completely. I think so because of how fast she has gotten this far. You’ll see; she’s getting stronger and stronger. It may take years, but don’t stop trying. I told you, the brain is plastic and can grow new pathways!!!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 9:32 pm
That is so wonderfully amazing! Anissa is blowing us all away.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
Please take a minute (actually 20 or so) to watch this video. It will be so inspiring and hopeful for you. It is about a brain scientist who lives through a massive stroke and watched as her brain functions shut down one by one. It is an amazing insight and story and the beautiful thing about it is the fact that she is up on stage- 100% back to normal talking about her experience. I know Anissa will be relaying all of her experiences to us all one day soon…
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/jill_bolte_taylor_s_powerful_stroke_of_insight.html
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
The best news. Just, the best.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:10 pm
This post gave me tears and chills!!!!! Come on, Anissa!!!!! You’re doing so great and I know that your kids is what will be pulling you through this… you are in our prayers.
And my boobs are going in a calendar for you! I WOULD NEVER do that but if it’ll help your family I’m on it!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:10 pm
This was a bit more than what my heart could handle today. Thank you for sharing such intimate moments. You are definitely an example of a husband and father. Will continue to pray for Anissa’s recovery and for your endless strength.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
…Simply…beautiful
A mother’s love. A husband’s love. A father’s love. A son’s love…there is no more to say.
Thank you for sharing.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Your courage and the beauty of your family are kind of thing that Christmas magic is about. I’ll be thinking of you all in every twinkling light.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:40 pm
I’m crying too and praying for Anissa and you and the kids! It’ll be a slow journey, be patient. God bless you.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:42 pm
Ok seriously I never cry but I am now what a beautiful boy what a beautiful mom what a beautiful moment and you’re beatiful too Peter thank you for sharing. Get better Anissa
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:48 pm
There is no greater motivation than a mother’s love for her children. (Well, IMO, anyway.) I am so moved and encouraged at this progress. I continue to keep you all in my prayers.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 10:57 pm
I am so very happy for Anissa, you and the kids. Your son will remember that moment forever! And one day soon, you all will look back on it to see how far you’ve come…especially Annisa. Prayers are continuing.
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
Hi Peter, we are still coming though right after Christmas and would love to see you guys and the kids and help what ever way we can for 24 to 48 hours. We knew Anissa and the kids from CBCS. It’s short, but we are willing!
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on Dec 12th, 2009 at 11:48 pm
That is so awesome! I am so happy that she is responding more. I know it meant the world to her to see one of her kids! Still praying! I hope you find the perfect place for her, so all the kids can come!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:08 am
Thank you for keeping us updated. Sending love and prayers to all of you.
Go Anissa!!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:09 am
God is good.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:20 am
You know what they say, Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Well, I believe heaven hath no love like a woman for her child.
We’re still praying.
And Peter, you’re doing such a great job! Anissa, must be so proud of you–I say that in the present tense because I think she’s aware of what you’re doing
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:26 am
You are amazing Peter. And it’s so hopeful for all the rest to hear of her incredible progress. -Christine
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:34 am
Wow. Beautiful!!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 1:26 am
When this is all over and your wife is completely recovered (she will!!!), you should take all these entries and make a book. The whole world needs to hear about Anissa and what a miracle she is.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 2:39 am
What a huge blessing and gift!!! I wish my mom had done that so bad…….I’m so jumping up and down for you guys. I’m a total stranger to you, but understand what you are going through so much. Yeah!!!!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 9:40 am
Tears in my eyes too. So glad both Anissa and Nathaniel both got what they needed. Thinking of and praying for you all every day.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 10:02 am
Your kids are very blessed to have such a great and attentive father, especially during this time! Prayers for you!!!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 10:29 am
That’s amazing progress. Thanks again for keeping us updated, Peter. Hugs to Anissa!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 10:37 am
You are a rock! Thanks again for sharing, your son sounds as if he is wise beyond his years. Glad to know they had some time together.
God Bless and many more prayers are coming your way!
Go Anissa!!!
~Germantown, OH
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 10:41 am
What great news and amazing progress. Praying for your family everyday!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 11:03 am
This is amazing news! Nathaniel you ROCK!!!! way to go! Anissa is my HERO ♥ I am bawling my eyes out at this post. Keep up the good work ! Still praying for Anissa’s complete recovery. Love you guys!
Desera
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 11:05 am
OH the power of a Mother’s love for her child - and a child’s love for his mother! I can’t get rid of the lump in my throat…simply amazing!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 11:09 am
I have a Nathaniel too, he’s my youngest. This post brought me to tears.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 11:24 am
This is wonderful! I have been thinking of and praying for your family for the last few weeks. I love hearing about any new progress she has. I will continue to pray for you all..
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 11:43 am
What an emotional Friday! I’m tearing up as well. That hug means so much…
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Ugh…sitting in a coffee shop this morning crying happy tears after reading that. I bet that meant so much to everyone in the room. I’ll keep thinking of you and your amazing family!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:48 pm
This post made me cry tears of happiness! I am sending positive thoughts your families way for more leaps like this one.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I dreamed about Anissa last night. In my dream, Anissa had had the stroke and some time had passed and she was staying somewhere, like a house, I assume, that had a large bed.
I sat down on the empty side of the bed and she opened her eyes and started talking to me and I was dumbfounded because I didn’t think she was able to do that yet. But other than the fact that she was in a bed, she was basically the same old Anissa. We talked, we laughed, I told her everything that was going on with Aiming Low. I know it was just a dream but I woke up so happy and even more hopeful.
This post just adds to my firm belief that Anissa will be making an amazing recovery and that the power of love and prayer can move small hills right now and eventually? Mountains.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
I think I just converted two more nurses to the ‘praying for Anissa’ team, and a doctor.
It’s weird how bursting into tears at work draws people together.
I’m so, so glad this happened for Nathaniel. So glad.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
All of you will remember that 20 minutes for a lifetime. So happy to hear the good news. So many people are pulling for Anissa and her family!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 2:26 pm
that must have been so good, for Anissa and for Nathaniel. i’m so happy that he got those moments with his mum.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
That is so incredibly precious and beautiful. Blessings and prayers (and rest) to you all! So thankful you have a support team who is there for each and all of you - and the rest of us here who can cheer you on and cry and pray for you.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
I can’t stop crying! I keep picturing the scene where Anissa grabbed Nathaniel and my heart just melts. Everything went as hoped, but so much more! The power of a mother’s love can’t be measured. I am so happy for all of you! Keep moving forward Anissa…you are doing great! Peter, all I can say to you is that God didn’t make many like you. You are such a treasure to Anissa and the kids. God bless all of you! I know…He already is.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
Wow, this is such wonderful news. Goosebumps & tears. Wonderful. Continuing to pray….
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 4:11 pm
Thinking of you all and checking for updates every day. This post was such wonderful news to read. I’m still crying. You guys are amazing.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 4:28 pm
*crying* Oh my gosh, so beautiful and so encouraging! Nothing more powerful than a mother’s love (nor that of a wife’s love).
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
That is huge and awesome.
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
I teared up hearing this. Anissa, we are all thinking and praying for you all! You stay strong girl and keep fighting! We’re all behind you!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 8:43 pm
I keep coming back…You know that each of your posts are like witnessing the birth of Jesus over and over again… Anissa… each moment, each movement, a miracle from God… There is no better Christmas story, nor Christmas than to hear of how you are being birthed back into your family.
You have one terrific husband and kids… one can easily see God’s grace as you work so hard to let everyone know you are with us… rest, heal, rehabilitate, refresh, renew…as we rejoice and continue to pray for your full recovery…
God will continue to make a way… for every member of your family… His handiwork is evident even today!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
The fact that she recognized him is so special in itself. This brings back so many memories of my mom and the most painful moment for me after she had a stroke was not knowing who I was.
Big hugs to all of you!
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
a mama needs her babies. So glad that things went well. We pray for you all every day
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on Dec 13th, 2009 at 11:34 pm
Just wow. Just love. Just faith.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 1:10 am
I have to remember to grab some kleenex before I come over here to read.
Love you Anissa. Thinking of you and praying for you every day.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 2:05 am
I was nervous catching up after an un-wired family vacation… this just made my night.
Tomorrow morning won’t be quite as fearsome or feared knowing that she’s already showing you that she’s coming back and that a mother’s love can’t be messed with.
Still keeping you in my prayers every day. Reserve a space in line for me for one of those hugs when you’re read Anissa!!!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 2:56 am
That made me tear up. That was so beautiful that she responded to him like that. You’re right, this is Anissa Freakin Mayhew we’re talkin about!!!! She’s gonna shock us all, and she’s gonna be back on the blog telling us about epic fails and making fun of her husband!! She’s done it before, she will do it again. Be strong, she’s coming back with a vengeance.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 3:02 am
What a blessing! You and your family are constantly on my mind and in my prayers.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 4:04 am
I know everybody else already said the same thing about tearing up but how can we not! I am so happy to hear how she was able to respond to him! We are still praying everyday! Her progress is definitely there!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 4:56 am
That is such a wonderful sign and wow how great for Nathaniel to get the response he did. I continue to pray for you all!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 8:11 am
Hey Peter,
I haven’t made a comment lately, but I want you to know that I am checking on Anissa everyday and praying for her full recovery.
Love,
Mary
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 9:55 am
Such wonderful news. I sit here crying and praying for you and your family.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 10:19 am
I haven’t posted yet, but I have been praying for you guys multiple times a day. I’m keeping you all very close to my heart. I believe strongly in the power of prayer, positive thought and miracles. I expect nothing less for Annisa and your family.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 10:53 am
What a great way to start my day with tears of joy for you and your family….keep up the good work!!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 11:03 am
Wow. Just wow. I just got a shiver. Hope Anissa continues to progress so well.
Did you find the tape recorder?
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 11:07 am
What am amazing, moving step. How wonderful that he was able to play such a strong, powerful role. You should all be proud. We’re all pulling for you!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 11:18 am
This makes me so happy! I am crying like a baby! I am already a little emotional because Brian comes home from his deployment from Iraq today. Before we left I had to see how my friend is doing fighting her own war. I do believe she will be victorious!! Love to you all Peter. Anissa, keep up the good work girl!!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 11:27 am
What a beautiful and emotional moment you described, it brought tears to my eyes. Sending you love from Toronto, Canada
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 11:34 am
bawling my eyes and holding my son tight. xoxo
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
Happy crying and still praying! You and your family are amazing peter
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
So awesome! What an incredible reunion. Praying for continued progress, you are doing an outstanding job, Peter.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 12:49 pm
That is such wonderful news! I’m so happy for all of you, but especially Nathaniel.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
Smiling through my tears and praying for you every day, Peter. Stay stong! Keep fighting, Anissa!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 1:55 pm
I broke out in tears; wow, that was powerful. Thinking of all of you…
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
This is wonderful news! A love of a son for his mother… a love of a mother for her son! Mother/Son bond is oh so Beautiful! Praying for Anissa! Keep fighting!!! Stay Strong!!!
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Goosebumps.
Hell to the yes.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
A mother’s love is such a powerful thing. That made me cry- my prayers are with your family.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 3:54 pm
I’m in tears here…the word picture you painted is so powerful and beautiful.
Prayers continue for you all.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Amazing, just amazing. I’m in tears after reading that. She is strong and you, her family mean everything to her. My thoughts are with you all.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
I think you need to change the whole family’s name to FreakinMayhew. You all are totally awesome. Can’t express how happy I am for you right now and how often you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ann @ All Children’s
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
You can really tell how much both of you love your children. This post made me cry. My thoughts go out to you, your kids, and especially Anissa.
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
Oh my, my heart just swelled so big I thought it would burst. Such great news - can’t wait til the girlies can get a little mama’love too.
xxoo
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
Awesome! I’m praying that it just keeps getting better…
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
I am so sorry for all your family has been through. I am praying for you all and was so happy to hear that things are heading in the right direction.
I kind of have an idea of what you are going through as my then 2 year old daughter was hit by a car on June 17th of this year. She has a severe brain injury and spent nearly 3 months in the hospital. She is slowly, slowly starting to begin her recovery.
I will continue to keep you in my thoughts!
Take care,
Jen
avianareese.blogspot.com
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 7:54 pm
Amazing. Peter - Anissa, you, and your family are in my thoughts every single day. And without fail every post you write sharing Anissa’s journey and struggle leaves me in tears. But today, they are happy tears of a Mommy finally seeing her son and for the joyous 20 minutes with such good response. I’ll keep on praying for much more.
Love, Colleen (aka ClassyMommy)
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on Dec 14th, 2009 at 11:50 pm
I’m crying along with the others…this was such a wonderful, touching post. I’m so happy that Anissa was able to respond so amazingly to your boy - although he is just simply amazing. Your boy sounds a lot like mine, with a very special bond with his Mom.
Hugs and further good thoughts sent your way…
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 12:16 am
i can only imagine what that moment must have been like for all of you. simply amazing.
continued positive thoughts for anissa, you and your beautiful children.
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 12:53 am
What does someone say to that …..
quieted.
shaken
hoping it’s just the tip of the iceberg.
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 1:44 am
Wow! I was not familiar with your family or your story until I linked here from another blog.
Your wife sounds like an amazing, fantastic, and fabulous woman! I really want to meet her! She has so many people pulling for her! So many people who love her! It’s awesome.
I will pray for wisdom for her doctors, strength for you and healing for her.
I think she is going to be ok.
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 2:15 am
I’ve never experienced this before with anyone(suffering a stroke) but, I know what you say is a miracle! I know that not everyone comes out of a major stroke unscathed or even doing nearly as well as Anissa is.
This experience is a wonderful testament of God’s grace on his people. Prayer is such an important and integral part of our lives. I will be saying another prayer tonight for her continued strength and your continued patience.
Hugs
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Came across this blog while doing some research for work. I can’t tell you how your story has touched my heart. The image of a little boy seeing his mommy for the first time in a month is overwhelming. I will keep Anissa and your family in my prayers. A positive attitude and prayers can overcome so many obstacles. Stay strong and may Anissa keep improving each and every day.
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
Miracles happen everyday!!!!! That is FANTASTIC!! Thinking of your family & praying everyday for all of you!
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
Truly the most touching moment I can imagine. Praying for baby steps forward every day.
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on Dec 15th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
So very happy that she outdid herself. What a wonderful gift for Nathaniel.
I am still praying! Thank you for sharing this wonderful moment!
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on Dec 17th, 2009 at 12:06 am
wow.
A momma’s love is a VERY strong thing.
Praying for your family!
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on Dec 17th, 2009 at 2:39 pm
There is nothing more fierce and powerful in this world than a mother’s love for her child. Of course you don’t need a reminder of that. Wow. Go Anissa!
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on Dec 17th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
Proof positive that love can heal anything.
Tears in my eyes. Can’t wait for Anissa to be better so she can read all the beautiful things you have written.
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on Dec 18th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
OK. That made me cry.
So glad to hear Anissa is getting stronger.
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on Dec 19th, 2009 at 5:38 pm
**with tears in my eyes** I feel a great joy hearing her progress… I think of Anissa and your family often… praying for her recovery. God bless you all.
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on Dec 21st, 2009 at 3:15 pm
So amazing!!!!
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on Dec 21st, 2009 at 11:56 pm
This is so encouraging. That made my eyes swell up with tears. I continue to pray for you and your family.
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on Dec 28th, 2009 at 12:13 am
I know I am adding this late but I am SOOOO happy for you and you family and of course your son.
Prayers that all your children get to see their mom and get a much needed hug (needed for mom too)
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