It took us that long to get out of the hospital, but Friday night, late in the pouring rain that’s hitting everywhere it seems, we transitioned to a new facility.
It’s not going to be Anissa’s first choice.
I’ve prayed on this one like you wouldn’t believe.
I think it’s what she needs for several reasons.
Comfort is not what she needs right now, it’s love and caring.
This place she’s at, is not neccessarily the prettiest, it does, however, have what she needs right now, I think: Soul.
The physical therapist looks uncannily like Anissa’s mom, and I think that will work for her. Also, when we described our situation to her, and how important she is to our 3 little kids, She looked Sandi dead in the eye and said she’d give Anissa everything she’s got.
It’s THAT attitude she needs now.
Why?
Basically, I’m concerned about depression at this point. I backed out of taking Rachael up there the other day. I’m doing it this morning instead. Anissa has been extremely weak, and I didn’t want to see Rachael crushed.
So I just broke the news to Rachael that we’re going this morning. Rachael is the definition of absolute joy. Yes, I’m a doting father, but if you met her, you’d agree too. She’s got a big deep belly laugh that you can’t help but join in. She’s also Anissa’s little mini-me.
I’m praying that something happens today and Anissa hears that laugh, and it draws her out more.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:08 am
Good luck! And congratulations on moving out of the hospital.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:10 am
I hope it goes well, and I hope that the soul of this new place is EXACTLY what Anissa needs!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:10 am
Will keep you all in prayers today.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:11 am
As a mom, I know that the laughter of your child is a healing thing. It’s cathartic, deeply spiritual, inspiring and comforting. I have a feeling that Rachael is just what mommy needs. BEST of luck! Still pulling and praying for all of you.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:11 am
As always, I’m praying for your family. I’m so excited to hear that Anissa has made the next step in this journey. Thanks for keeping us all updated.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:11 am
Sending good thoughts.
I hope Rachael is able to draw Anissa out today
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:12 am
Thinking of and praying for all of you!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:13 am
I’ve been reading and praying every day for you. I’m wishing you the best that this new facility can give Anissa everything she needs and more!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:15 am
I continue to pray for Anissa (and you and the kids) Come on Anissa!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:16 am
I’m thinking of you and praying for the best, today and every day!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:16 am
It sounds like you’ve got her right where she needs to be! Best of luck with Rachael!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:17 am
Praying everyday for Anissa and your family!!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:21 am
You know we’re prayin’ peter.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:22 am
The new facility sounds like the perfect fit for Anissa. That IS exactly what she needs right now. I truly hope the visit with Rachel goes well.
Continuing to send all of you love and prayers. Be well.
Melissa Wardy
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:22 am
I think that your gut instinct about where she needs to be is your answer to prayer. ‘Soul’ sounds like the exact right prescription, to me! Hope you can feel the love and support that is flooding the internet for you guys.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:23 am
Happy to hear things are moving in a progressive direction!
KEEP IT UP, ANISSA!!!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:24 am
Congrats on the move, I’m looking forward to hearing more amazing things about her progress
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:25 am
There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about you guys and if there’s ever anything I can do, please let me know. I’m an hour away and will help in any way I can. That goes for my sister, as well.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:29 am
I’m still praying for Anissa! Hopefully this will be just what she needs.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:31 am
Congratulations on the new digs. C’mon Anissa, you can do it! *hugs*
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:54 am
So begins the long road. You’re wise to choose work over comfort. She may not like it, but it’s what she needs. We’re still hoping and praying.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 12:02 pm
Thinking and praying for you and your family today. Anissa is blessed to have such a wonderful strong and advocate of a husband! Keep up the faith! God is with you all.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
Thousands of people who have never known Anissa are praying for her and your family to come through this dark time stronger and brighter on the other side.
Much love from the Boingerhood.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
I join the many others in wishing good thoughts for all of you. You are an amazingly supportive man.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Praying with all my might.
XOXO
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 12:30 pm
I am new to your blog and am praying for you all.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 12:42 pm
Praying for you all
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 12:48 pm
Sending love and prayers and hope. Go Team Anissa!!!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
Yeah for moving onto a rehab facility! I hope she gives this her all…((HUGS)) to your family….Keep holding on…
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
Thinking of you all and sending you hope and strength. So glad you’ve made another big step…here’s to many many MORE!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
Go go go Anissa. You’re making good choices. She needs someone with a fighting spirit to help her along the way, and that sounds just like what that woman is offering you. Fingers crossed that this morning is amazing.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Anissa is lucky to have such a wonderful husband and family. That alone is helping her… I’m sure of it.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 2:16 pm
I’d like to believe God led A where she needs to be right now. Crossing my fingers for a positive visit for Rachael with her mama!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
Good luck Peter. Still saying prayers for Anissa every day. xo
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Good luck to all of you.
I’m praying. And hoping. For y’all.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 2:29 pm
Great that you found a place you feel strongly about. Still praying and sending love.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 3:02 pm
Yay on getting out of the hospital! Rehab places aren’t the Taj Mahal but anything is better than being stuck in a hospital.
Fingers crossed that the kids can help with her frame of mind – attitude is SO important with rehab!
Thinking of y’all every day and, as always, thank-you for the update.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 3:51 pm
Praying Anissa gets what she needs at this facility. Please let us know how it went with Rachael. I’m praying for their visit.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
Don’t forget, love and caring IS comfort!!!!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 4:04 pm
Sometimes it is the uncomfortable that helps with break though moments (and I mean that about the transition, new care etc).
I hope that us following allowing/commenting is still providing support even if it is from complete strangers like me. “cheerleading” Go Anissa – show ‘em what you got!
Diane Reply:
December 20th, 2009 at 5:55 am
Pardon my grammar, I should proof read my comments. That would be good! Hope that made sense. The line should have read:
“I hope that us following ‘along’…”
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 4:29 pm
Have faith Peter, I know it’s hard but so far we have seen such great results.
I am believing God for another miracle. He just keeps them coming!
Hallelujah!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
Peter~ You are a remarkably strong man – and just what Anissa needs to guide her and make these important decisions for her. Sending more love your way – can’t wait to hear how Anissa responded to that sweet girl’s belly laugh.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
transitions can be hard, but next steps often are. you are such a great husband and dad. know all our thoughts and good strong energy is sent to all of you. and hoping this new spot is JUST what she needs to get back to you as soon as possible.
hugs!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 5:20 pm
I’m thinking of you all constantly.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 5:57 pm
Peter – Always think of your family & Anissa. Can’t wait to hear how the visit with Rachel went. xo colleen
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
I’m still praying for Anissa and her fammily! You never know, this may be what she needs.
Blessings to all of you!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:25 pm
The power of our children’s laughter is very powerful medicine.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
Here is to the next stage!!! Just imagine how much further you will all be after the next 31 days!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:38 pm
We are praying that this will be just the place to help her heal…God be with you ~ keeping you strong.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:40 pm
Here’s to next steps and big doses of laughter to help. Praying for you all every day.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:44 pm
You all are always in my heart. She’ll understand when she can, Peter. You did what felt right and that’s what matters. Depression is a bitch when you’re also physically compromised. You’re doing SO WELL. You all are.
All my love.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:52 pm
Just want to express to you that I think you’ve made the right choice in picking a place that would focus on her rehab rather than just making her comfy. Thanks for keeping everyone updated…can’t wait to hear how things went today with Rachel’s visit! HUGS & LOVE to you all!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
anissa –
Girl, I’m crazy praying for you every stinkin day. You’re on your way to recovery, I just know it.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 8:11 pm
Peter – It’s good to go with your gut instinct. If the physical therapist can provide the caring attitude that Anissa needs right now then I’m sure she’d agree with your decision to put her there. She will want to get back to you all as much as you want her back. She’ll work hard with her rehab and she’ll do it.
Praying for you all – especially for peace of mind for you as you have to make all these decisions. Take care and God Bless.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
friend of sharon…..who is praying for recovery!
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 8:41 pm
So glad you found a facility that you think is best
Hope all went well this morning.
on Dec 19th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Anissa is used to being the fixer, the giver, the doer…….now she needs to realize there are lots of others who want to give and do for you all and her! Prayers from around the world because of your blogging will rally the troops and send in the army of prayer warriers needed right now. Our God is a good God and He is holding you all in the palms of His hands.
Be strong Anissa, be strong Peter and I KNOW things will keep improving!
I have never met any of you but your strength has changed my life forever.
on Dec 20th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
Sounds like you’ve put a lot of thought into finding the perfect ‘next step’ for her. She’s very lucky to have you in her corner.
Thinking of your family often and praying for the best.
on Dec 21st, 2009 at 2:48 pm
I can imagine it must have been a tough decision… but it sounds like you made the right one.
We are praying!!!