When I first started this site up several years ago, it looked a little different. I band-aided together a couple of software packages and made it work. I would watch the little counter go up shortly. 1 hit here, 4 hits there, etc as friends and family would trickle in. It was something to do to pass the time waiting for news.
It was lonely.
Yesterday we had over 35,000 hits and drove our friend’s server into the ground! THAT’S the kind of impact my wife has had over the years. That’s not counting all the social media sites she’s gotten into. I keep her cell phone on me because it jiggles when she gets an email for some things I just can’t figure out. It jiggled all day. I like it because it’s a constant reminder that people are thinking of us. I’m going to keep it that way for a while.
I asked for someone to lean on….apparently we have the world. And somehow that includes her favorite teen crush of all time….the karate kid, Ralph Macchio. I’ve still got to figure that one out.
You ALL inspire me and hold me up at times. It kind of feels like that moment in Rocky….where he ran alone at first, then the entire city of kids ran behind him later.
THANK YOU ALL!
So, Friday was a day of waiting. We decided that maybe we were pushing her too hard and would just talk “around” her, instead of aggravating her.
They ordered another cat scan, after Natalie pushed hard for it. Sometimes with a medical staff, you’ve got to drive them. We learned that with Peyton, and it served us well. Plus with a weekend coming up, they never order tests over a weekend unless there’s a significant change. Three day weekends are a challenge to wait through. Bless her for pushing for that.
No news is generally a good thing, so we waited rather impatiently all day long. We waited and talked. We talked about the kids. We talked about things Anissa’s done. We talked about current events. We laughed some, we cried some. Mostly, we waited. It was that polite conversation you do when there’s something you’re dancing around. Another friend came up to stay for a while.
Anissa got a bath, new sheets, had a picc line installed. She gets a little cranky when they mess with her.
Then, last night, around the time they do a shift change, we were talking to her, focusing on her, asking her to open her eyes.
She did.
She kept trying to keep them open for a good 35 minutes. She also tried to sit up some.
We don’t think there’s any recognition yet, but we do think she’s hearing us. I keep telling her simple phrases like, “I love you”.
These are baby steps, but very encouraging baby steps.
The cat scan finally came back shortly afterwards: No degradation, slight improvement.
We’re getting there.
On the home front, the girls are doing remarkably well. I’m concerned for Nathaniel. He’s my oldest and a tenderheart like his dad. He’s old enough to understand what’s going on with his mom, and he’s scared/nervous. On the outside, he’s being his normal goofy self. Even got in trouble for doing another kids homework for money the other day. On the inside, he’s hurting like no other and doesn’t want to show it. I’m very thankful that his best friend in the whole world gets up here today and will be here all week. The non-estrogen support will be welcome. The lego battles will be monumental. The adventures in the back yard will be better than they’ve ever been. The forts will be huge, and they will wage war on everything…including that fear in the back of his head.
on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:09 am
Thank you Peter for sharing this. Anissa is a true fighter and we are all rallying for her.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:09 am
Woohoo!! Thank u for ur updates, we all hang by every word! Keep it up Anissa - so much positive energy surrounds you! I hope I get to meet you IRL one day soon!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:09 am
Just another stranger here wanting to tell you I’m praying for Anissa, for you and your kids. I hope that you are feeling the love coming at you guys. Hang in there. We are all pulling for her.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:09 am
Such encouraging news! The picc line will mean they won’t have to “mess with her” as much, which is good. Those docs have no idea what a Mad Anissa would do to them
And trying to sit up! This marathon is just beginning, but damn if our girl isn’t out of the gate running. So much love, so, so much love. And extra lovin’s to Nathaniel, sounds like his best friend will help so much.
xoxo
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:10 am
The part about Anissa getting cranky when they mess with her made me LOL. I can totally see her being all, “Step off already!”
I’m glad Nathaniel will have his friend there for comfort and if not a little distraction.
We’re rooting for you Peter. All of you!
XO
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:10 am
She opened her eyes! And she’s trying to sit up? That is amazing news!
Glad to hear your son’s friend is coming up to visit, too. I’m sure his teachers know what’s going on; I hope they’ve been supportive. Give your kids a hug for all of us. Sending more prayers in your general direction.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:11 am
You are an amazing writer. So glad for encouraging news, and baby steps are sometimes the best way to make progress. Much, much love to your entire family. Still praying…
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:11 am
Thank you SO very much for keeping us up-to-date. The little words of encouragement keep us all going.
I think Anissa would be a little proud of Nathaniel for hustling.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:12 am
I am blown away by your strength in writing these posts and reaching out to this community. I have seen Anissa’s name and picture on so many blogs, in so many posts, and in so many tweets. She has inspired thousands of people with her fighting spirit.
You have humbled us as we face our daily obstacles. I tackle every minor annoyance now with a smile, with thanks, and with whispered blessings to a woman who is a stranger to me, beloved to so many, and a hero to us all.
So many of us continue to pray with every fiber of our being, and we continue to believe in the power of that prayer, and in the power of the sheer hope that we will hear her voice on these pages again.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:12 am
You are lovely and so is this. Anissa and I travel in blog circles that touch in many places but somehow we’ve never met and only started mutually following on Twitter last week. Shortly after she was watching Scrooged - a favorite movie of mine too - and we had fun going back and forth about it for awhile. I can tell genuine, funny people right away, and they are my favorite kind.
I am pulling for your family, truly - know something of the waiting game myself and needing to push to get what you know is right for the person you love. Thanks for sharing your story and I’m glad you are getting some comfort from her community.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:12 am
Peter, you are an angel for keeping us updated like this.
All my love, and love from my family.
Thank you for being patient with us Internet people!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:12 am
There is no question in my mind that Anissa will pull through this and will be okay. We are thinking of her and her family all day every day and putting all of our energy into getting her better.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:12 am
I love that you are writing, that you are keeping us updated. That’s a self thing because each morning that I get up…it is one of the first things on my mind…how is Anissa doing?
I have met her at a couple of conferences, but didn’t know her personally like many of the bloggers did. In fact I have learned much more about her since all this happened….reading all the blogs on her.
Thank you for picking back up this blog…that you got going when you were in pain before. Hopefully it will be helpful for you…to keep you going and give you strength. Prayers are not only for Anissa, but also for you and your family. Thanks
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:13 am
We will take it!!!! Keep going Anissa!!! We love you! Peter you are doing a great job, hang in there!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:13 am
Improvement! Oh, even slight… Fantastic. Thank you for keeping us all in the loop as we pray for your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:13 am
Peter, thank you so much for keeping us posted. Wonderful to hear of Anissa’s improvement. Still sending prayers and love your way, always.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:13 am
It’s astonishing how baby steps can be so monumental. Praying without ceasing, praying especially hard for Nathaniel today.
Sending love and prayers your way.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:13 am
I’m please to hear that she is slowly improving. Baby steps are better then no steps at all!
I know you said you are good for help in the next few weeks, but please keep us up to date whenever there is a need that arrives.
Thinking of you and your family…..
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:14 am
Still praying, still thinking of you all!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:14 am
Thank for for updating us Peter. We love you guys.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:14 am
Thanks for your heartfelt updates, Peter. I’m know your days are busy and stressful, so I appreciate you taking time to share what’s going on physically and mentally. Your posts help us focus our prayers for your family. Please now that many are keeping your family in our thoughts. We’re here to support you as best we can.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:14 am
Sending tons and tons and tons of love to all of you. You are, and will continue to be, in my thoughts *hugs*
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:16 am
Peter, we’re down here in Macon, praying, waiting and hoping along with the world and you. Know that if you need anything, anything, we’re only minutes away and seconds via the interwebs. Your darling wife is a fighter and I know she’s behind those beautiful brown eyes, look at them closely, they’ll tell you the tale.
Much love and prayers..
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:16 am
Slow and steady wins the race, right? That’s so encouraging that she tried to sit up!! Come on lady, you can do this!! Maybe she just needs a few more days of rest to gear up for the holidays. I like that idea.
Love to you all. Thank you again for keeping us posted, we all love Anissa and hope for the best.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:16 am
Thanks so much for keeping us up to date.
And you’re right… people are thinking of you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:16 am
Thank you so much for keeping us all updated. Continued prayers and strength, Rocky!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:17 am
Your strength and Anissa’s continues to amaze me. We’ve added a candle to the center piece in our holiday display… lit EVERY DAY (the only one at this point) to send up our prayers and support on ribbons of smoke.
Legos are killer therapeutic tools! Hey I’d pay top dollar for him to do my daughter’s math homework so I don’t have to help her with it, math and me we don’t see eye to eye.. ha ha. Keep on hanging on we’re all here with ya and waiting for the call to help out when and wherever you need us.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:17 am
Peter~ Thank you for the updates. Anissa is the first thing on my mind when I get up in the morning and the last before I head to bed. The baby steps? They are the beginning. We know Anissa can move mountains - and she couldn’t do it without you.
Continuing to send you love and prayers - will pray especially hard for Nathaniel.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:19 am
Updates are so appreciated! Thankyou Pete! Praying for you and the kids. I can’t imagine their feelings. Praying for Anissa to wake up today. That would be amazing and and to show signs of a full recovery to be possible! We would love to see your family at the next Fashion Funds a Cure. Miracles can happen and Anissa is the one with amazing strength!
Love, Trac (and Katia)
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:19 am
Thank you for taking the time to let us know how she’s doing. You are quite obviously one amazing family. And you already know it, your wife is one amazing woman. She will fight this. She knows you’re waiting for her. She knows your children need her. She is in all of our prayers every moment of every day.
Sending you strength, hope and love, (especially for your tenderheart - I have an eleven year old too and it must be so, so hard for him.)
Love,
Tricia and Family xoxoxo
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:20 am
Thank you for the update, Peter.
I don’t know you or Anissa but for the past few days, I have been eating, breathing and sleeping your situation. I pray Anissa comes back to you and your family.
Hugs.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:20 am
Hooray for baby steps. Love to your whole family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:20 am
Thank you so much for keeping us updating. We’re praying non-stop.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:20 am
Thank you thank you for taking the time to reach out to us when all we want to do is reach out to support you. You have no idea how grateful we are for the updates — and how your own grace under this pressure is so impressive. Anissa is a lucky woman to have such a wonderful husband by her side. Please know that all of us out here are keeping your whole family in our thoughts, and that we are delighted with the baby steps. It does fill me with some grateful relief and a lot of hope to know Anissa is taking those small steps no. Here’s to many more days of progress. Sending love and well wishes from our family to yours at the start of this Thanksgiving week.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:21 am
Peter, I don’t know you, and just recently started following Anissa after hearing about the uncertain events that have been taking place! I’m so happy that there are baby steps! What means the most, is a loving, devoted husband and family behind her, not to mention the rest of the world!
Keep fighting girl! I can’t wait to talk to you!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:22 am
Continuing to pray for all of you. You and Anissa are incredibly lucky to have each other.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:22 am
Thank you so much for the update!
I am keeping her in my prayers. I’ve been talking about her so much to my husband that my 2 year old now asks me “Mama…how Niss? Niss bet-ah?”
From your lips to God’s ears little man.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:22 am
Thank you for the update, Peter. Your strength is amazing. Anissa is such a fighter and the prayers for her and all of you will keep coming until she’s back online, yelling at us to cut it out already.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:23 am
You mentioned that you aren’t very strong…but really, my God…look at what you’re doing. You’re so very, amazingly strong. It’s inspiring. Awesome. You’re doing such a great job. I hope you know that.
I’m working on scraping some money together for your family. I wish I could do more. (And that Ralph Macchio business was all @mayopie, that crazy cat.)
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:23 am
Thanks so much for the update, Peter. So many of us are thinking of you guys constantly. It is so encouraging to hear about her opening her eyes. And that she gets cranky when messed with is endearing.
Will keep sending prayers and support.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:24 am
What good news, and what a strong husband Anissa has. You both are so lucky to have each other! Thank you so much for keeping everyone updated.
Prayers continue from our home in Ohio.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:25 am
Thanks for this update. And, yahoo for weakening the server! We are still praying for her recovery, your sweet kids, and you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:25 am
Peter, you don’t know me either. I only just learned of Anissa and her amazing presence in the world, but my family and I are praying our hearts out for her, and for you all.
I’m so thrilled there are hopeful signs. Anissa seems like she’s a tiger - perhaps she somehow hears the many voices out here and feels your touches and knows “they need me to come back”.
Blessings to you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:26 am
Another stranger here
telling you that you are clearly a remarkable man, husband, dad, and that my family, friends, and I are praying for all of you. We believe Jesus still does miracles and we believe in one for Anissa. God bless and keep you all!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:28 am
Hi Peter,
Thank you so much for sharing the news. I just wanted to say that another blogger ‘friend’ of mine shared that when her husband was in a coma she would go to the hospital (usually alone) and hold his hand for as long as she was there. She never thought he knew she was there. When he woke up, he thanked her for holding his hand… he said “it felt good!”
In love an prayer… sending positive thoughts for Anissa and your family out into the universe.
Vicki Sinz
Anchorage, AK
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:28 am
What a gorgeous writer you are. Prayers and positive thoughts for your entire wonderful family!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:28 am
Your son is hysterical. I’m thinking of you. The Bloggess and I talked about Anissa the other day on my web show. We asked people to donate and dedicated all the awkward delays and pauses in honor of her. She is going to get better, she is strong.
Lee
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:31 am
Still praying for the One who bore our infirmities to bring her His healing touch, for the peace of God that transcends understanding to guard your hearts and minds as you anticipate His mighty work in this situation, and for the Lord to lead and guide her medical staff. Thanking Him advance for all he is going to do: “I am in pain and distress; may your salvation, O God, protect me. I will praise God’s name in song and glorify him with thanksgiving.”–Psalm 69:29-30
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:32 am
Another stranger from South Texas praying for your family. Thanks for the updates!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:32 am
Yea for baby steps! Anissa can do this, she can do ANYTHING. I’ll be saying prayers and thinking of you all with each step of this marathon.
Hugs!
Shelley
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:32 am
holding her in our thoughts and praying for you all…down here in texas.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:33 am
Peter, thank you for your time. Thank you for sharing your time with us, and for keeping us updated on your beautiful wife’s progress. We’re not going anywhere, so get used to that jiggling.
I’m praying so hard for Anissa, and extra hard for Nathaniel today. He’s a strong kid, he’s made of you and Anissa, and we’ll lift him out of this.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:34 am
Thank you for the update - keep fighting Anissa! Don’t let them mess with you! We haven’t gotten our chance to meet up for tea yet in Atlanta and that’s something I don’t want to miss.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:35 am
Found out about Anissa through Heather Spohr’s site. I have gone over her blog posts and realized what a wonderful, witty woman she is. And I wish I knew her in real life, because she is amazing!
I have an 11 year old son (my oldest) and I can imagine his struggle with something like this.
Wishing you and your family the best and many more little miracles for Anissa.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:36 am
Hi! Yet another stranger and Anissa bloggy friend and fan here. Thank you for the update!!! It’s so nice to hear from Anissa’s other half and good to hear that she’s making some progress. We are all pulling for you and your family, sending love and support through the Internet and the universe.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:38 am
Much love to y’all - you are in my prayers.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:41 am
I knew I was drawn to Annisa for a reason! Ralph Macchio….ahhh…that takes me back!:) We’re still praying in Kansas for her! Hang in there, it will be tough, but you already know that. Hug the kids, lean on your friends and count on your internet buddies to keep that phone jingling! Thank you for keeping us posted. I checked so many times yesterday I think my computer was getting dizzy!;)
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:41 am
And still another stranger praying hard and reading every word. Thank you for finding the time and energy to update the world. We are all praying for you and fighting with you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:44 am
Thank you Peter for continuing to update us. It is so good to hear that she kept her eyes open…and that she was cranky. That made me smile.
You guys have tons of love and support around the world.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:46 am
Thank you for the update. I am so glad there is some improvement. I will keep praying. I know she can beat this!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:46 am
Baby steps are wonderful.
Keeping you all in my prayers. I hope your son has the time with this friend that he needs, that the boy time will help him in any way it can.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:47 am
Im so glad to hear some encouraging news. Continued prayers
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:48 am
Thank you for keeping us informed. Any improvement is great news! Keeping all of you in my thoughts.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:48 am
Prayingprayingpraying for Anissa and all of you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:49 am
Praying for Anissa here in TN.
Praying for you and the kids…sending hugs all around.
Thanks for taking the time to update.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:50 am
As I said yesterday, you don’t know me from a hole in the wall and I’ve just been a lurker but I still feel like I know a small part of y’all (not in a creepy, stalkerish way, I promise…I’m not one of “those” people) so thank-you for updating - I know I refreshed well over a dozen times in the past 24 hours or so, hoping for an update. I’m glad she’s starting to show more encouraging signs. Sure, it’s baby steps but that’s how everything starts in the beginning. You remain in my thoughts, with good wishes for continued improvement.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:51 am
Peter, you are an excellent writer. Thank you for the update.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:52 am
Another stranger praying for your family. Port Orange is *my* neck of the woods. PLEASE let me know if I can help with Anissa’s mom (your original destination, I believe?). Anything that I can do is offered. Lifting you up in prayer.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:53 am
Thank you for the update. I’m keeping all of you in my thoughts.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:57 am
I am praying for your whole family, because I know this stuff is hard on the kids. I cannot even begin to imagine what you are walking through, but I still pray for God to give you comfort and wisdom and grace as you walk through this. And, obviously, I am praying for Anissa to be healed.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:01 pm
Peter,
Thank you so much for the update. I know that we all appreciate it. Yes, Ralph Macchio has offered up his well wishes after probably everyone on Twitter @’d him and told him what a huge fan she is of him… He rocks!
We are continuously praying for Anissa and the entire family here in NC!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:02 pm
Sending love,good karma and prayers for you,your kids and Anisa, you are all loved and there are hundreds of us keeping you in our hearts.. I will pray a little harder today and every day
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:02 pm
Like everyone, still praying hard.
And you are fantastic.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:05 pm
I have never met Anissa, but I am praying for you and your family. I truly believe prayer works.
A friend of ours suffered a brain aneuryism just one week after giving birth to her first child. She was 26. The doctors told her husband to “say his goodbyes.” He refused. Through much prayers and a long road to recovery (she had to relearn a lot of basic skills), she’s back to her old self.
Miracles happen. Prayers work. Sending lots of them to you and your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:05 pm
Thank you for taking time to update us. The prayers are coming fast and strong for Anissa and you and the kids. It’s all about the baby steps, that’s for sure. Sounds like she’s a fighter, which is great. It’ll be a fight, but I have faith that with your support and the want to be back for her family, she’ll come through this.
Best to you and yours Peter.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:06 pm
just wanted to jingle the phone, still thinking about you and the family, from Texas
Keep kissing those babies….thanks for the updates, always good moving in the right direction!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:09 pm
Peter, thanks so much for updating us, I’m so relieved to hear the good news that she’s working on eye opening and the tests are coming back promising. I’ve got family in Atlanta (I’m in Chicago) so there are some prayers coming from close by as well as from up north. Best, Laura
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:11 pm
I am so choked up. Thank you so much for sharing all of this- it helps us to know what’s going on with our friend, and it helps us know what & how we can pray.
Steph
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:16 pm
So many people sending you love and prayers, I am honored to be among them.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:21 pm
Thank you for keeping all of us updated! You are all in our thoughts and prayers! I am so glad to read about her “baby steps”. They are a piece of hope.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:22 pm
I hant cried this week and i thought something must be wrong with me? after all, one of my sisters was hit hard. this though? closed up my throat and made teara swell and roll. peter, thankyou for writing these posts. anissahas yet to leave my thoughts. i know shes gonna pull through; she just has to!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:27 pm
My first thought each morning is…’how is Anissa”. It’s so amazing of you to keep this internet world connected. The Anissa we know IS a fighter and we’re just cheering her on in the background. We are thinking of all of you and praying…endlessly.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:27 pm
I don’t know you but I am here through the uprinting website and am so moved by your story. I will be praying for you and your beautiful family, wishing for a quick recovery and healing.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:34 pm
Love to you today, Peter. And every day.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:35 pm
Oh Peter! Thank you so much for the update. I’m sitting here with tears running down my face! THANK YOU GOD for even the small steps of improvement! My heart is breaking that your kids are going through this, as well as you. I’m so glad that Nathaniel’s best friend is going to be there to support him. Doing homework for money??? that’s got to be the Anissa in him! that made me smile =) I am in constant prayer for Anissa and your family. Keep your chin up and remember to take care of you! She needs you so much. I wish I were close enough to do something, but since I’m not, I’m praying like I’ve never prayed before.
much love and prayers
Desera
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:38 pm
Oh that sounds very encouraging! Sounds like she is fighting hard! Much love to you guys. xo
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Anissa is one tough lady, just like the Karate Kid, although he wasn’t a lady, but he was tough and he kicked-ass, just like Anissa will.
Positive thoughts to you and your family, Peter and thanks for sharing your lives with us. Whether it’s funny or horribly sad, monumental or trivial stuff - it’s amazing how the power of words unite people. And we’re all rooting for your family and especially Anissa.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:39 pm
I had not heard of Anissa before this happened, but I have seen how many lives she’s touched. I’m praying with all my heart that she makes a full recovery. Sounds like she’s giving them hell already.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:41 pm
I was just thinking about the day I met Anissa. We were at the Deal’s house planting a garden for Hannah. Anissa was so nice to me and really craked me up! I have enjoyed being a small part of your family since then. Anissa is special woman. I am praying for you guys all the time. I know you guys can do this.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:41 pm
I am praying for your family.
Baby steps indeed, but steps none-the-less…
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:42 pm
I discovered Anissa and her writings from “Momisodes” and wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to all of you. Your children are blessed to have you and Anissa as their parents. Best wishes to Anissa in this newest fight. I know she’ll win!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:43 pm
This is such optimistic news I will continue to think positive thoughts for everyone involved. Fingers eternally crossed
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:43 pm
Caught wind of this through Twitter; I never knew Anissa but know the same bloggers that she does. Sending positive thoughts and love to you, your family, and Anissa.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:48 pm
Thank you so much for taking the time to write an update for us. Please know Anissa is in my heart and in my thoughts as are you and the children.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:52 pm
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:54 pm
My prayers & thoughts are heading your way. thank you so much for sharing this with us.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:55 pm
Baby steps, no matter how small, are still forward progress. And that’s exactly what we’re all hoping for.
Many thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:56 pm
My daughter was in a coma with a massive head injury for over a month, with no hint of recognition, no movement, no open eyes. It seemed frankly impossible to me that she could be whole again. But son of a gun, as I write 7 months later, she is back in her own apartment, living her own life, with nothing to show for her ordeal except a couple of scars and a little less stamina, but that is changing daily. The nurses told me it happens all the time, and nobody knows why. I am wishing for a wonderful outcome for you, and my thoughts are with all of you as you go through this scary, scary time.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 12:58 pm
I’m SO glad to hear that there’s improvement. I’ve been praying for you all.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:07 pm
Baby steps, indeed! But what awesome progress, even if it’s just little by little. The same thing happened to my mom - it’s four years later, and she’s better than ever. Keeping you guys in my thoughts and sending positive energy your way.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:10 pm
much love, hope, and prayer
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:12 pm
Thank you for the update.
We’re all pulling for Anissa!!! If anyone can do it, it’s Anissa.
xoxoxoxo
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:15 pm
That’s excellent news! Anissa is such a fighter.
We’re all pulling for her.
Your family is so strong. This is hard, but I just know y’all are brave enough for this.
I can’t wait to gossip about Ralphie with Anissa.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:17 pm
Hey Peter,
I am impressed with your heartfelt writing…bring on the kleenex!…thank you soooo much for taking the time to share with us…
We are praying for Anissa and all of you, and sharing this prayer need with others too.
Love you,
Your cousin Jayne
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November 21st, 2009 at 3:43 pm
Love ya Jayne
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Thank you for the update. We are still praying very hard. Thoughts of your wife pop into my head at random times. Consider this… with all the support out there, someone somewhere is thinking of Anissa every second of the day.
If I haven’t mentioned it here before, I met Anissa very briefly at BlogHer during the speed dating portion of the program. I met a slew of women during that time and she was one of the ones I remembered the most. This, all after meeting people for only one minute at a time. She has that amazing energy and love of life that is impossible to forget.
God bless.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Thank you for the update, Peter.
Still thinking of you guys, still sending good vibes and lots of love to Anissa. She is one of the most beloved bloggers, so many are pulling and praying for her.
(HUGS)
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:22 pm
Fight on!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:25 pm
I always feel like I need to take a big, deep breath after reading news about Anissa, because I never realize it but I’m practically holding my breath through the entire update.
I’m glad that you can find comfort in small things right now, and I hope that you and your family are able to continue to find comfort in the support from this community and those around you - everyone caring for your family and Anissa, near and far. Still thinking of and praying for you and your family, Peter. Thank you for including us in these updates and we will be looking forward to more news of Anissa’s improvement! She’s a fighter, she can do this. You all can do this.
Is there anything in particular that we could send Nathaniel to cheer him up a bit and help him? Anything at all? I’m sure we can all get together to send all the kids a great care package. Let us know. Feel free to email me directly - mommy@mommygeekology.com - I’d be honored to help.
hugs and kisses - Caitlin
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:29 pm
I found out about Anissa through Heather Spohr’s site. My heart has been breaking for your family. I have been checking for updates several times a day — and am soooo glad that there is some progress. Please know that someone in St. Pete, FL is thinking of your family!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:36 pm
Praying hard!!! Anissa is amazing!!!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:47 pm
I met Anissa ever so briefly at BlogHer and she blew me away with her fabulous combo of crazy humor and an incredibly friendly manner. I have been thinking of her and of you and your family constantly since this happened. Sending much love and light your way.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:48 pm
I still can’t find one single word, but thank you for all of these updates. they mean more to us than you know. Love to you and yours, Peter. We’re rooting for you all.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:52 pm
What an encouraging update! We all know there’s huge mountains to climb in this fight, but these first steps are awesome! Continuing to lift all of you and her medical team up in prayer and love!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 1:59 pm
Thank you for the update. Anissa and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers x
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:02 pm
Another stranger here —sending good vibes!! Anissa you are in my prayers—fight girl fight!!!
Sunnie
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:18 pm
I heard about Anissa through a few other blogs that i read. Ive been reading old posts of Anissa’s and am falling more in love with her each day.
I just wanted to let you know that i am praying for Anissa and the whole family through this very difficult time. Sending my love and good vibes your way..
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Keep fighting, Mayhew family! We are all lifting you up.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:42 pm
I had turned on the Today show for just a minute the other day… enough to catch Anissa and her story of how she makes your kids hug each other on the kitchen floor in lieu of any other form of punishment. It make me laugh…
Then I heard the news….
I don’t know your family, but I am praying for Anissa… She’s obviously an extraordinary woman.
And you write so beautifully. Thank you for sharing this hopeful journey with us. We are with you…
@SavvyAuntie
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:45 pm
Thank you for updating & sharing what’s going on. I’ve heard so much about Anissa from Maria, and I’m hoping for the best for you, her, and your kids. I wish I could do more.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:47 pm
thank you so much for updating us. and here’s big virtual hugs to your kids as well. may God give them the strength to get through this…and you too. you are fabulous and anissa is so lucky to have you by her side.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:52 pm
I know Anissa is in there and if I know her, she has plenty to say. It may be a while but her time will come and we will be pulling for her every. Single. Second. Thanks for sharing her progress here on the site where I first ‘met’ Anissa. It feels good to come here 20 times a day and see all her stuff. You know this already but if there’s anything at all I can do for ANY of you (your mom, the kids, extended family, friends) that will make life even a fraction easier right now, please let me know. I’ll be here waiting for Anissa for as long as it takes.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 2:54 pm
Thank you for sharing your journey and I’m sending prayers for Anissa and your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:02 pm
All I could think when I read the title of your post was to REMEMBER how excited we were when each of our kids took their first baby steps. Peter, these tiny things are cause for BIG celebration.
Your heart seems to be penning your updates here…your words bless us as our prayers encourage you. Thanks for letting us be part of your and Anissa’s story….
xo
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:02 pm
Here is another big cyber hug for you and your family.
There can never be too many right?
Anissa is lucky to have all of you. Keep those baby steps coming!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:19 pm
Baby steps. Baby steps. Baby steps. Wonderful.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:21 pm
I’m thinking about and praying for Anissa and your family with all my heart. Be strong! You have an AMAZING family, and I am so proud of you guys. Anissa will show her backbone once again, I can feel it. Love and hugs from strangers - ‘new friends’ - Mandy, Brock and Ronan.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:21 pm
Peter:
You are a lot stronger than you think! I am so very new to this wonderful world of blogging. I just started my blog in June 2009. I found your beautiful Anissa a couple of months ago through some other wonderful people I have found through Twitter and Facebook.
When I learned of this on Tuesday afternoon I was devastated to say the least. Then I felt so astonished by the love and concern of thousands of people who love her so much. What a community I have become a part of! I am so thankful.
And now I feel like I am getting to know you also. Thank you for keeping us posted, she is on my mind and in my heart always.
In no way do I think these are baby steps, I think this is AMAZING!!! And from what I have learned from everybody that really knows her, she is going to be even more amazing in the days to come. Don’t let those test reports get you down. She is making miracles happen and again from what I have learned about her, that is just what she does!
Again Peter, Thank you so very much! Much love to you and your family. Praying every moment.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:25 pm
the one thing i do know, you have more support than you could ever imagine from the crazy internet!
Love to you and your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:27 pm
Peter-thank you so much for keeping us updated. Baby steps are wonderful to hear about. So thankful to hear about the scan. Much love to you and your family. Still praying hard.
Heather
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:30 pm
Thank you so much for this, and all the other updates. I am not sending emails or calling a number, but I am receiving promise after promise from my circle of friends, readers etc, they are all praying and hoping for Anissa. So many ripples of love and support. Every day. Every minute. Strength to you all.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Sending strength and peace to you and Anissa, and to your three kiddos. Hang in there, all of you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:38 pm
Peter,
You don’t know me but I have come to know Anissa over the past few years. My son Joshua has ALL and was diagnosed in April of 2006. Anissa and I have talked on and off through this wonderful world of the internet. I just wanted to say thank you for the updates. Thank you for posting on Hope4Peyton as I know that is EXACTY what Anissa would want you to do. Know that prayers are coming from everywhere and that God will see you through this.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:38 pm
Thinking of you guys every day. Much love and prayers.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:42 pm
Thanks again for updating us, Peter! We’ll keep hoping for more baby steps!!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 3:49 pm
Great to hear encouraging news.
Know that for every time that phone jiggles, there are at least a dozen other thoughts and prayers for Anissa going out to you. Thanks again for the update.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:00 pm
There’s always room for one more miracle, and we are ALL praying for Anissa and your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:01 pm
We are praying! Just wish I could hug all of you. Please tell Anissa how much we love her.
Love you,
Kay
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:02 pm
I heard about Anissa through Heather Spohrs blog. I’ve been following and praying just like everyone else. Thanks for the update! No news is good news! Praying and hoping for more baby steps!! Sending you peace and comfort during this difficult time to you and the kids.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Peter-YAY!!! Improvement-however small is FABULOUS!!! I am so thankful to God that Nathaniel will have some “male” bonding time with a friend. He might not share his fears with him-but just having someone around who understands-even when you don’t say anything will make a difference for him. Hope you all have a good week-we’re still praying very hard for Anissa-and all of you! Just this week-with the events that have happened-there is much to be thankful for.
Rhonda~
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:13 pm
wanting your pocket to jiggle, because we are all thinking about you guys! Thanks for keeping this community up to date. We love your wife.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:19 pm
Continued positive vibes coming from Sunny SoCal. SO happy to hear of ALL the support for you and the kids and your wife. Thanks for sharing so openly with all of us…
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:39 pm
Thanks for posting updates, Pete.
Praying and sending positive thoughts and strength to you all.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:40 pm
Another stranger here thinking of you and your family. You are really inspirational to read and I am praying Anissa continues to improve swiftly.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:44 pm
Yet another stranger here, praying for Anissa, and your whole family. I have more strangers praying for her.
May you all have the grace and strength you need to get through this.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 4:55 pm
Any progress, even baby steps, are steps in the right direction and welcome news. I hope you’re finding some comfort and strength from all those holding you and your family close to their hearts.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:03 pm
I met Annissa’s blog via Madeleines blog that I have followed since April this year, so technically I don’t know Madeleine or Annissa, that is not to say that I have not made friends via the web which I have and have many wonderful friends. But it doesnt take friends to let you and your family know that we are all praying for you and hoping the same hope you and your family have and that is that Annissa recovers well and with speed.
hugs from Australia
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:10 pm
I commented over at the Caring Bridge…and was tech challenged cause I couldn’t see the comment link here…found it, finally. No, I’m not even blond.
I keep thinking about all of you and praying for the small steps to make the big miracle happen.
It’s nice that you can keep such a great attitude. Baby steps are good!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:22 pm
I’m so so glad to hear that bit of good news. Thank you for letting us all know.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:23 pm
Peter, you are amazing. Not just for being a pillar of strength for Anissa and your kids, but then for also taking the time to update us all. We all are pulling for Anissa and your whole family and these glimpses into what’s going on give us hope. And we’ll keep on praying.
Hugs to all, Christine
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Peter, You are a fantastic writer too! Wow, your kids have quite the gene pool to fish from! Thank you for the update. I know I’ll be looking in long after Anissa is back writing her own. HUGE hugs…stay strong…keep demanding tests. Anissa is very blessed to have all of you. I hope Nathaniel finds some peace during this scary time. Prayers for him and all of you will continue.
Karen
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:40 pm
We are all so deeply touched by these updates from you, Peter…
Please know that we stand, at the ready, to help with whatever it is we can help with- whenever the need for that help should arise.
We are quick to mobilize and we are galvanized by the deep affection we have all developed for Anissa. Say the word, and we will make it (whatever “it” is) happen.
In the meantime, I am sending you wishes for comfort and strength.
-Ashley (@Pluckypea)
PS-We’re setting up a donation option for your family on both http://GimmeJimmies.com and http://SurvivalofTheHippest.com to help defray costs…
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:43 pm
Hi - I do not know you guys, but learned of you from 2 other mom blogs I read. My heart is breaking for you and your family. What a truly horrible situation you are dealing with here. I tell my kids I love them a few extra times because you just never know what can happen. I’m thinking of you all every day and praying that all turns out well. I will follow your posts and hope to hear of improvements every day. If need be, I will try to donate something that will help your family out in this time of great need.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 5:49 pm
You are right–we ARE all with you, running, cheering you on.
I thank you for the frequent updates; we’re all waiting anxiously for them, and though they may be hard for you to churn out, we appreciate them.
Hugs and kisses to brave Nathaniel.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 6:02 pm
Yes! Keep talking to her! I hope that at some point soon you will be able to see the documentary Life. Support. Music. It’s an amazing story of a young musician who had a massive stroke. His family’s constant talking and working with him was what helped him to recover. I saw this movie at a film festival two years ago, and it has never “left” me.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 6:09 pm
Another praying hard stranger here. Who lost a best friend , light of the world lady to a brain bleed.
Stunned by your extension of grace.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 6:23 pm
Just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers your way!!! I am here via The Spohrs…and am hoping for the best possible outcome!!! Thank you for the updates! SAM
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 6:26 pm
I got goosebumps when I heard Anissa tried to sit up! And that she has her eyes open! When she’s ready to hear it, please tell her that Manic Mommy (Stephanie Elliot from Twitter) said, “Well, that’s one Effed up way to get out of having to put on a bathing suit!” She’ll TOTALLY know what that means, and also tell her to EFF ME LOUD!” She’ll get that one too! Peter, you sound like a strong, giving man, God bless you, the kids and your awesome wife.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 6:42 pm
I am just learning about Anissa in the last few days. Unfortunately, I started “knowing” her when something so traumatic happened.
I just wanted to say that I am pulling for your family! If nothing else, Anissa sounds like a true fighter and she will come through this, slowly but surely.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 6:54 pm
Been thinking about Anissa all the time - I’m heartened to hear she has shown some improvement. Thanks so much for keeping us updated.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 7:02 pm
Your updates are the first thing I look for whenever I log on. Baby steps are good. Very encouraging!
As always, hope, love and prayers from our family to yours.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 7:16 pm
I don’t know your family, but I have been sending my prayers to you all! Anissa sounds like an amazing woman who will fight harder than anyone!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 7:23 pm
Another stranger who is praying for you and your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 7:36 pm
Baby steps! She opened her eyes! Wonderful news! Sending all our love and prayers! <3
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 7:41 pm
couldn’t figure out how/where to comment before now, but have been thinking of you all constantly since i heard the news.
wishing you comfort, love, peace, prayers and strength,
karen
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 7:52 pm
Pete, we are all praying. Anissa is a strong fighter, she always has been, I love Her alot, I hope you are doing as well as expected. Anything you need call.
Love Your Brother - in-law
Kevin
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:01 pm
I don’t know who Anissa is. The day everything happened, someone on my list sent out prayers for her. Curious as to what happened, I checked out who she was. I friended her on Twitter to keep up to date with her progress. And I wanted to let you know that all of you are in my thoughts. I hope she gets better soon. I know how scary this is.
Laurie Ann
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:29 pm
Amazing. You, her, your kids, your family. My daughter and Nathaniel were in the same class a couple of years. I consider Anissa a friend. She must be soo pissed! I also have a tenderhearted little man..it’s amazing to see them process..I hope the adventures he gets to have with his bud are huge and cathartic. still praying. Thanks for keeping everyone in the loop.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:31 pm
Praying for Anissa, you, the children, all the friends and family and the medical staff. Strength, support, love can work miracles in conjunction with great medical care. My Dad was in a coma for a month following a car accident and when he recovered he definitely recalled a feeling of love and strengh. He didn’t remember specific conversations but voices and snipets and love. I know what everyone is doing for Anissa is helping her fight. Hugs and prayers.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:32 pm
I haven’t known what to say. Still don’t.
But I just want that phone to jiggle a little more letting you know that the world is thinking about you all constantly.
Even here in Australia.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:35 pm
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers!!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:36 pm
Wonderful news, she is healing…. and it takes time to heal.
One day at a time, one day closer to getting her back.
P.U.S.H. for Anissa…Praying Until Something Happens…and it is so keep praying some more!
Love you Mayhews!
Traci
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:37 pm
Your news is wonderful - very encouraging! I am continuing to pray for you all.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:42 pm
Not an hour goes by I don’t think about Anissa. Still hoping and praying for you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:45 pm
Thank you for keeping us up to date.
Praying and praying every chance I get, for Anissa, and for your family.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:51 pm
Peter, this is wonderful. Your wife is a blessing to so many of us. We’ll keep praying for all of you.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Thank you for this update. You guys have been on my mind constantly.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:57 pm
Each day, I wake up and wonder how she is doing. Thank you for sharing it all with us.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 8:57 pm
I am still praying! I have great hope for Anissa!
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 9:12 pm
Peter, thank you for the updates, and I agree that Anissa would laugh her head off knowing Nathaniel was trying to hustle for some dough. I remember reading long ago about people who had strokes or were in a coma that bringing in smells and fabrics from home were good ways to stimulate the brain. Maybe some cinnamon, or a favorite blanket or sweater Anissa likes, might help her. She is strong, and she will get through this. She will even be telling stroke jokes combined with boob jokes within the next year, I just know it.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 9:20 pm
I had never heard of you until yesterday and I just wanted to let you know that I spent the night reading archives and you have touched my heart. God speed recovery.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 9:38 pm
This is very encouraging, Peter. Thank you so much for sharing this hope.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 9:41 pm
Still here. Still praying. Still sending love and good juju from the left coast.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 9:45 pm
Just wanted you to know that I have always enjoyed Anissa’s tweets and have been thinking of you and sending you virtual strength as much as I can.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 9:53 pm
Came by again today to find out if there was any news. I am continuing to keep you and Anissa in my prayers. Love and hugs from strangers in Texas.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Our family is praying for Anissa and all of you. She has been the strength for so many and an inspiration with her love, determination and wit. I know she will pull through and I hope you can feel the love from ALL over the world.
Dear God, give the Mayhews strength and your healing grace !!
Lisa
More strangers ………..from IL and NE
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 10:51 pm
I was made aware of Anissa’s fight thanks to “The Bloggess”. Her story has captivated me and I am praying for her recovery everyday.
Yet another stranger hoping to make a difference for you and your family through prayer!
(Shreveport, LA)
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:53 pm
Came by way of two other sites. I am praying for your family. I am glad she has all this love around her. That is definitely going to pul her through. I pray she will be home in time to enjoy the holidays. Take care of yourself. And hopefully you too can get some rest.
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on Nov 21st, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Sounds like the prayers are helping! So happy to hear about those baby steps. We really appreciate your updates. Continued prayers for Anissa and you all!!
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 12:06 am
I can absolutely hear the positivity and optimism in your tone here, and for that I am grateful. One day at a time - and hopefully, more like this one.
Thank you.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 12:16 am
Just another “I’m thinking about you guys” comment.
Blessings!
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 12:22 am
Great news! We are still praying and know that Anissa will be reading all of this wonderful support for her, very soon! Hugs to your family from ours.
~Kadi
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 12:36 am
This is such good news, I think she’s an amazing woman.
A STRONG woman.
Much love.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 1:18 am
“No degradation, slight improvement” - those words make me very happy! I just happened upon your wife’s situation from another blog, but please know that I am sending good wishes your way.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 1:21 am
WOW! I am glad to hear the cautiously good news. I read the “mommy wants vodka” blog when I can spend more then 15 minutes on my computer, and heard about Anissa’s situation. While I curse technology, this is a moment when I embrace it. I have not followed her blog and know some information now, but I feel your love and care for this person I have never even met. Words and stories and mom’s are so powerful….I am thinking of your family and send lots of prayer to Anissa and your family. I am a buddhist, and I chant….so I will chant for all of you. xoxox, amanda railla
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 1:47 am
Thanks for keeping us updated. Anissa’s a strong woman and I’m sure she’ll pull through.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 1:50 am
Still praying and all of you guys are in my thoughts! Thank you for the updates. That can’t be an easy thing.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 3:33 am
Just a stranger from Texas praying for your beautiful wife!
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 4:37 am
Our prayers are with you.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 5:41 am
Sending healing thoughts from Virginia, Liz
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 9:11 am
Hugs, prayers and light coming at you all from Connecticut. She’s gonna beat this!
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 9:37 am
I have faith that God is hearing our prayers. I trust His tender mercy. I’m praying for healing for Anissa and strength for you all.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 10:40 am
Peter, Thank you for the updates. Sending lots of love your and Anissa’s way. Glad you’re pushing the medical team. We learned that too, when our son had cancer. You have to be their advocate, no matter what.
Take care.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 10:42 am
Thinking of you all and praying for a full recovery for Anissa.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 11:06 am
I am astounded at your strength in writing this so eloquently, despite everything. My prayers are frequent and strong for you.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 11:07 am
Thinking of you guys each and every day.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 11:48 am
Peter - After reading your last couple of posts, I have to say your writing is fantastic - I think it even rivals Anissa’s. Seriously! Thank you so much for your posts, and I am glad you feel the love being sent to you from around the world. I’m sure Anissa feels it too. So happy for the “baby steps,” she sure is a tough cookie that one. As someone else posted already - I’ll bet she is pissed! That spirit will bring her back, I’m sure of it. Don’t forget to tell her you are posting your updates, but maybe you should wait to tell her how well you are doing with that!
Sending love your way from Tampa - Lori Smart
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 12:32 pm
So I thought that my post was sent yesterday, but apparently not…so again, just wanted to let you know that we are all praying for you and your entire family!
Yet again, another stranger that read about your situation through another blog, your wife seems like a magnificent woman and you are by far magnificent for being by her side!
Prayers, many many prayers are being sent your way! Thanks for the updates! There are reason’s for everything and you have brought a lot of people together!
Your entire family sounds like they are FIGHTER’S!!! So keep on fightin’ and we will all be here to root Anissa and your family on!
~Jana from Germantown OH
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 12:49 pm
Hi Peter,
You don’t know me….my name is Jenn and I love in Ontario Canada. I got to know of your wife thanks to Heather’s site. Since then, I have read some of your wifes words and I must say they had a HUGE impact on me. After only reading a few words from your wife’s posts, I was so impressed and knew, I would love to become her “real” friend one day.
I just wanted you to know your family now has a new “Stranger Friend” from Canada. I must admit when I read your post about your son, I started to cry. My oldest son is 12 and he is also a very tender heart. I know how hurt my son becomes so I can just imagine what your son is going through.
If he ever wants a pen pal (well…e-mail pal) from Canada. I know my son would love a new friend.
Well, I know you are probably exhausted so I will end this now. You are an amazing husband…Anissa is lucky to have you as her partner.
Please take care and know….you are NEVER alone.
Sincerely,
Your New Stranger Friend,
Jenn
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 12:54 pm
Peter, I just found out - I’ve been out of blogland and twitter for the last little while and I am so shocked - I just came by via Lotus’ site. I met Anissa in Chicago in July and had such an amazing connection - she’s a beautiful woman, with amazing strength and spirit. My heart and prayers are going out to you and your kiddos, and especially wishing lovely Anissa much strength and love as she pulls through this.
xoxox
Karen MEG from Canada.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 3:31 pm
A little progress is better than nothing.
I hope the kids do well every day. I only can imagine the fear they must experience.
Still praying for Anissa
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 3:43 pm
I am totally blown away with how strong this family is. You all amaze me. Humbles me with my daily complaints and whines!
I also am thrilled, as an anonymous face in bloggerville, to hear every little bit of progress Anissa makes. I’ve followed quietly through Peyton’s battle and rejoiced in her victories. I finally had to speak up though, after hearing about Anissa. She’s one tough cookie, as are all of you.
Good to see that there will be a shot of testosterone in the house for a few days to help balance some of the estrogen you’re drowning in! LOL I’m sure that it will help your son in ways that we or even you could not. What a struggle this must be for him, given his age. He is aware of the harsh realities that his mother is facing.
Prayers for you all, and especially for Anissa!
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 4:04 pm
Last night, I accidently found a blog asking for prayers for Annissa and what a wonderful person she is. There were dozens of sites saying the same thing.
Up until that moment, you were all strangers to me but I started to read Peyton’s blog and now this and was brought to tears. All morning I have been sharing what I found with friends.
PLease know there are dozens of prayers coming your way for you and for yours…
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 4:11 pm
That is fantastic news about Anissa and makes me believe that all the prayers are working! She is in so many people’s thoughts right now and I am so happy that you are using her network to keep everyone informed about her.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 5:19 pm
I stumbled on this site today (Nov. 22) after googling an author, Jen Lancaster. Not sure how I got here but I did.
I worked in trauma/ heart transplant for many years. I remember a beautiful youg lady, off to college to major in music, whose life was changed in an instance by a grunk driver.
She came into the ICU with a major, life threatening head injury. She was in a coma for 6 weeks with her wonderful parents by her side every moment.
When she finally left the hospital for rehab, her only response was the occasional eye movement, following her nurse or parent across the room.
The doctors said he would probably would never recover.
12 month later, that young lady and her parents walked back into the ICU and asked for us.
I could not believe my eyes. She was getting back to school, smiling and talking. She had no memory of ever being in our ICU though. It was one of the most satisfying moments in my life.
I asked her mom, what could we, the hospital staff, have done better.
And she said “offered us hope”.
From that day on, I realized that “being realistic” with families of the critically ill, does not always mean ” being realistic”. “Realism” is very subjective in the medical field. “Hope” is realistic. “Hope” is what built civilization, what drives us to find cures, what what allows us to visualize what the future may hold, and drives out despair. It lifts us and drives us, what holds us up in the darkest hour.
“Hope” is the essence of life.
And what makes us fight. And that is what you and your family are doing. Being realistic with these familes, in my mind means knowing that there is hope that the person you love so much CAN get better, CAN recover, and unexpected and unforeseen miracles happen every single day. I have seen it. I am offering you hope that people can suffer massive injuries, and recover. Your hope, and all of ours, are powerful things. Never let go of it no matter what anyone says.
She can come back from this. And frankly, I think she will, I have seen it myself… TS
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 5:24 pm
You *do* have the whole world rooting for you, for Anissa!
Thank you again for the encouraging update - I’ll keep wishing, hoping, begging, pleading with universe for more good news!
You keep fighting Anissa! Much love -
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 5:27 pm
So glad to hear about opening her eyes. I hope it helps to know that I’m another person from somewhere out in internet-land praying for Anissa.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 6:45 pm
I’m so very glad to hear this encouraging news on Anissa’s progress and it IS encouraging! She is getting there, for certain.
I have no medical background but stood by a friend’s side who was in a coma for three months. Very little hope of him coming out. The third month was when he opened his eyes and even watched TV! Things progressed rapidly from there so I’m hoping and praying it will be the same for Anissa.
We are all sending every ounce of strength, love, and support in my family, even though we’ve never met your wife. Just stumbled on her site and fell in love w/her words and her voice.
She’s a fighter and will fight her hind end off for you all.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 7:57 pm
Somehow I found this website for Peyton and was following it everyday for the last few years!
I only know you from the website. You are a very strong woman and funny. You can do this Anissa!!!!! You have to!!! Be strong….think of your children and husband. Think of Peyton! You will get through this!!! I have another friend, a lot older and he is doing it…slowly…but is doing it and I know you will too!!!! I’m praying for you and the road may be long ahead of you, but you will get there!!!!
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 8:35 pm
Another stranger from Texas adding her voice to the chorus of support, prayers and healing.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 8:50 pm
Omaha sending prayers, love, hugs, hope, spirit of His LOVE for you and yours. Please keep us posted and updated as time allows. Many blessings always.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 8:52 pm
Sending more prayers your way from Canada.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 9:26 pm
thank you for continuing to let us be a part of your lives. hope love (and as much cash as i can cobble together) is headed your way
((HUGS))
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 9:28 pm
Thanks so much for keeping us posted. Anissa would be so proud of your eloquence (I can’t spell). We’re all praying for Anissa and the extended family. You have an army, navy, marine and air force behind you. We all love Anissa. Take care of yourself.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 9:53 pm
Peter,
Thank you so much for your updates — I know that it’s difficult to think of posting on a blog for people you don’t even know, but you all have so much support.
Anissa is going to pull through this, and I look forward to reading her tweets and blog posts about what we’ll all look back at as a terrifying time with a happy ending.
Katy
@kwidrick
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 10:05 pm
You all are included in my prayers. You must take care of your selves during this time as well. She needs you all healthy. Peace be with you. I’m so sorry you are going thru this.
Peace,
Jodi
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 10:26 pm
Wow…glad to see the outpouring of love y’all are getting.
I assume you saw this in the paper yesterday?
http://www.ajc.com/news/prayers-for-anissa-flood-205977.html
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 10:54 pm
Just another “stranger” here, who has been blessed tremendously through your wife’s amazing courage and faith. Know that she and you and your kids, your entire family, are being covered in prayer by me and many of my friends and family. I was pondering yesterday about how amazing it is, given all the evil that is in our world, and that the internet has been used for - and how awesome it is that God is able to use the internet and the blogosphere to bring glory to Himself and make Himself known to people through such amazing people like your wife and your family. I pray that many more will see His glory through your wife’s incredible fight and story, and I pray for supernatural peace, strength and endurance for you and your family as you run this marathon.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 11:18 pm
Any tiny sign of improvement is a blessing. Continuing to pray for you, Anissa, and your kids.
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on Nov 22nd, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Thank you for posting these updates. Even though I don’t know anissa personally, like so many of us in the blogosphere, I know
her story, have read her words and feel like I know her. Thinking of you and your family, praying for Anissa and all of you.
-Jennifer @ blissfully caffeinated
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:02 am
Sending your family much calm, healing energy and praying for Anissa’s full recovery; her story is moving throughout the world and touching many.
Thank you for updating when you are able.
All. Ways. Peace.
becky
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 12:57 am
Love, light, positive thought - all winging its way to Anissa and your family. I’m not that plugged in to the blogosphere, but the few bloggers I read all know Anissa - so now I’m here, too and pulling for you all.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo from California.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:14 am
We’ve got you all in our prayers. Thank you so much for posting such an encouraging update!
Much love to you and yours.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:32 am
Thinking of Anissa and the rest of your family. Just another internet stranger touched by your story and Anissa’s wonderful sense of humor.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:34 am
Anissa…..
You are in my prayers Girlfriend! The Lord is with you each and every minute of EVERY day! He will get you through this. We all know how strong you are. You keep fighting girl!!!!! I can’t wait to hear from you!
Love You,
Jill Bonilla
Florida
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 2:49 am
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep on fighting!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:07 am
I am just so thrilled to read such good news! I know it is a hard long road - but I am soooooooo relieved Anissa is taking that road and fighting.
I am blinking through my tears as I think of your son. I have a tenderhearted boy myself and I can only imagine his pain — and yours knowing how badly he is suffering.
What an incredible blessing that all of you have such incredible support!!!
God Bless - and we are still praying and thinking of you all constantly!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 4:47 am
So 35,001 hits ! I heard about Anissa through The Sphors are Multiplying blog and now I find myself checking in several times a day to see if there is some good news about Anissa. I’m glad she’s such a strong fighter, but I’m even more thankful that she has such a huge outpouring of love and support for her and also for the rest of her family. That says a lot about her personality.
So good thoughts and well wishes from 1 more supporter in Berlin, Germany.
Keep fighting Anissa!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 5:35 am
Just so you know, I am in China, Shanghai, and heard about Anissa through “The Spoohrs are Multiplying” blog too. I would like for Anissa, you and your family to know that me and my family are praying for you all from this side of the world!
Keep the good fight going, girl!!! You have touched the WHOLE world with your love for life!!!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 9:16 am
Your family is in my prayers!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 10:10 am
Man you inspire me. Anissa was always lucky in my eyes because she was funny, brilliant, beautiful - but knowing she has an amazing dude like you in her corner…wow!
Thanks for keeping us far-away, wishing we could be there souls updated. She is a rock in our community, we love her so.
xxoo
Amy in OHio
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 1:59 pm
It feels so good to support such a wonderful family. Anissa is strong. I continue to pray for you all.
Thank you for updating us regularly.
It really means a lot!
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:15 pm
We all adore Anissa and event the hits to this site can’t measure it.
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on Nov 23rd, 2009 at 3:31 pm
I continue to pray for Anissa and you all every night. She’s an amazing woman!
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 12:01 am
I LOVE LOVE LOVE that she gets aggravated when they mess with her. She is IN THERE!
I hope the weather improves for the backyard battles. Though, cold and wet can work.
Love you Anissa, wish we could’ve finally met face to face this week while I’m visiting; it will make it all that much SWEETER when we can the NEXT time I’m here. Who knows, maybe I’ll bring you that Twilight toy we giggled over.
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on Nov 24th, 2009 at 1:12 am
Thank you for taking time away from your precious wife and family to keep us updated on Anissa’s progress. You have an amazing wife and exceptional family. There’s no wonder why Anissa would have chosen you to share her life’s journey. God’s blessings on you, Anissa and the children.
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on Nov 27th, 2009 at 2:53 pm
Wishing you and your family lots of love.
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