Did I say Friday was a good day?
Monday was better.
We celebrated with homemade waffles at dinner. Afterwards, I got to show off some of my card tricks to the kids, and even told them about one I pulled on my brother (thanks to Penn and Teller) 20 or so years ago. It’s still funny, and he’s still trying to figure it out.
Peyton yanked out a tooth at bedtime. The tooth fairy has already come.
So, the weekend had a little bit more activity. Anissa’s sister spent the most amount of time with her. Including getting the word from the neurologist that he thought Anissa would surprise a lot of people in this hospital.
It’s about time he realized this is Anissa Freakin Mayhew we’re talking about.
Sunday was a day of rest. Anissa was in and out mostly. As simple as it sounds, I actually got a hug from the wife Sunday. I was stoked.
Been waiting almost 3 weeks for that.
Then came Monday.
She got a feeding tube installed. I was hesitant at first, based on her progress so far, but, even if she were to be able to eat, she wouldn’t be able to eat enough to sustain a grown woman. So, they rolled her into surgery for about 20 minutes and rolled her back out, groggy the whole time.
Why groggy? Well, they gave her a bath at 3 AM. Not exactly conducive to “quality rest”.
Shortly after surgery, the speech therapy girl showed up. They did a swallow test with her on Saturday, and it wasn’t all that great. Which is why they put in the feeding tube. But, it’s a temporary thing, so I suggested she try it again. We talked about ways we could improve/stimulate Anissa. Earlier, we made half a laptop screen green and the other half red (for yes and no), but didn’t have much success with that. We wound up trying a spoon of water. Anissa swallowed it on command. Next we tried pudding. She swallowed that on command.
Swallowing. That’s a big deal.
That’s a huge step forward.
Anissa was pretty tired from the late night bath, surgery, and speech stuff. We figured she’d rest most of the day and be in and out like she has been.
Understand that the moments of activity that I’ve been writing about are small flickers of activity surrounded by long periods of waiting. And waiting. And waiting some more.
Physical Therapy showed up a little bit later. Anissa was in a real deep sleep. The therapist worked on her left side. Anissa groggily went through some motions, responding slowly. Then she woke up and started doing things she hadn’t done before. Look up here and reach my hand. Done. Point your toes to the floor/ceiling. Done. Kick your leg. Kicked. The therapist said that 10 was the magic number we were looking for, so if you watch Sesame Street, 10 is the number of the day.
Anissa gave her a sarcastic look. Head cocked, eyebrows furrowed. Slight sneer.
That was the left side.
Up until today, that’s where all the movement had been.
Yep, I said up until today.
The therapist went over to her right leg and did passive movements, asking Anissa to push back. Nothing.
Anissa looked exhausted.
They took a break and re-adjusted her in bed, moved her up a little, put a binder around her to cover the feeding tube.
She then raised Anissa’s arm perpendicular to the ground, held it by the wrist, supported it at the elbow, and asked Anissa to raise and lower her arm.
She asked if I wanted to feel.
I went over and held her arm the same way. It was faint, almost imperceptible at first. But, it was definitely there. She was pushing and trying to raise and lower her arm.
After that, she fell asleep pretty hard.
I couldn’t stop bouncing.
The paralysis has been a growing concern of mine. I’ve seen occasional twitches, but never more than once, and always out of the corner of my eye, so I haven’t really been counting that.
At dinner time, Sandi called and said Anissa was ultra awake. We put it on speaker phone and let the kiddos talk to her. She responded to each one of them right down to showing Peyton’s teddy bear that she sent up while Peyton was talking.
She blew them kisses. Actually puckered.
She held onto that bear for over an hour.
Next up is the right leg, then her speech.
Your prayers are working absolute miracles. She’s getting stronger daily.
Apparently my little undeniable force of nature thinks she’s ready for rehab.
on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:12 am
Go Anissa! Continuing to pray pray pray for Anissa and her awesome family!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:17 am
What awesome fantastic news!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:18 am
im so happy! tears of happiness right now!
praying hard everyday!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:20 am
So amazing. I am so glad for all of you! I continue to send the most positive of vibes to you.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:21 am
Way to go Anissa!! We will continue to pray for Anissa and your family!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:22 am
This is beautiful news, Peter!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:23 am
That’s mah GIRL!!!!! Tears of Joy from North Carolina!!!
We love you, Anissa, and are still praying.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:24 am
I am so excited to hear all of this amazing news! Those doctors totally didn’t know who they were messin’ with! Go Anissa! Continuing to pray for her and all of you!! Can’t wait for another awesome update!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:24 am
Go Anissa! I’m so happy I could cry!
I’m praying for all of you every day!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:25 am
More tears! So happy there is so much progress! We are continuing to send prayers from Texas.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:28 am
OMG Anissa you’re so amazing. And when you’re better, you’re gonna hear how amazing your husband is too. The tears for you now are all tears of joy!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:29 am
GOOSEBUMPS!! So Amazing! Keep it up, girl!
Love, hope, and prayers!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:31 am
What awesome awesome news. We are praying for you!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:32 am
Incredible news!! She is one hell of a woman and you are an amazing rock. I’ll keep praying.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:33 am
You just might make me a believer. Amazing news!!
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Amy Driehorst (@amyjod) Reply:
December 8th, 2009 at 11:43 am
I’ve been thinking of you through this…your comment about hoping to be proven wrong. I’m a big believer in prayer and hope Anissa’s story is touching you and others who aren’t. Peter is doing an amazing job letting us know where his and Anissa’s strength is coming from.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:33 am
More tears of joy from NC!!!
She truly us a force of nature…a force to be reckoned with!!!
Go Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:34 am
whoo-hoo! this so awesome! praying more everyday
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:36 am
Wahoo!!!! Fantastic news!!!!! Doctors should never underestimate someone that has lived so exuberantly. :))))
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:42 am
Isn’t the power of prayer awesome! I will continue to pray for Anissa, you and your family.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:42 am
yay!!!! I am so incredibly happy right now. This made my day. I will keep on praying cause apparently it IS working!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:47 am
Awesome!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:47 am
“this is Anissa Freakin Mayhew we’re talking about” — Amen to that! Thanks for this glorious update!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:48 am
I found Anissa’s blog the week of Thanksgiving and have been following daily since. This is wonderful news today! I have a friend who’s mother had a massive stroke (this woman is twice Anissa’s age) and has recovered fully, I think. I took quite a bit of time and possibly wasn’t as strong as Anissa. I’m certain she’s coming back strong and amazing!
Thank you for keeping everyone updated, I’ll continue to pray for you guys.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:48 am
Tears of joy!! Will continue to pray for you all!! <3 Anissa!!!! & Your own strength, Peter, is amazing. Love to you all!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:50 am
AMAZING!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:54 am
*Tears* Thank you God! We’ll just keep praying her better!! So proud of you girl! Keep it up!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:57 am
Wow! This post had me in tears. I will keep praying for her. God bless you and yours.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:02 am
Amazingly awesome update. Keep it up, Anissa! As always, she is in our prayers!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:03 am
WOO HOO! Yay yay yay! WTG Anissa!
Thinking of y’all every single day, several times a day, waiting for each new update and so happy when I hear of more progress. And I know I’m not the only one. Who could know that a perfect stranger could affect so many people like this?
Thank-you Peter!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:04 am
That’s amazing news! Still praying for all of you.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:06 am
You Go Anissa! Still praying for you all.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:06 am
How amazing! Will continue praying for all of you!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:07 am
Wow!!!!!!!!!! Anissa!!!!!!! I’m not sure I can handle that much good news at one time. Peter, you must be absolutely ecstatic! I am so happy. Keep up the good work! Half the world is praying for you(probably more)…you are so loved! The doctors don’t know who they are dealing with, but they soon will!
Keep up the good work! F.R.O.G. and the power of prayer!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:11 am
I’m just a lurker who’s been following Anissa’s progress these past few weeks. Although I have never commented, Anissa, you, and your children have never been far from my thoughts. Hooray for her achievements! Good luck to you all and congratulations! Thank you for sharing.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:18 am
I, too, have been lurking and praying and asking those I know to add their prayers. I’m not religious but I do believe in the power of prayer. My son was born 3 months early and wasn’t expected to live. We just celebrated his sixth birthday; he has manyy challenges but seems to overcome them one at a time. I think he and Anissa have a lot in common —fiercely determined, slightly (??) stubborn, surrounded by love and prayers.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:19 am
YAY!!!! Still praying and singing Glee songs for her!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:23 am
Go baby go! You are all sorts of amazing. We know you can do it. We are behind you every step of the way. As long as it takes. We are here!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:24 am
I’m sobbing over here, so happy to hear this!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:26 am
Such good news! Please keep sending updates! We are pulling for her!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:31 am
YAY! I have been following Annisa’s progress and sending up prayers for all of you. As a speech therapist, this post made me smile from ear to ear! So many good signs! Praying for continued progress and blessings for your entire family!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:32 am
Great news! It seems that Mayhew means fighter and survivor and strength. You seem to all have this incredible power to move mountains. All of you.
We are in constant in prayer…
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:32 am
Such exciting news! I’m so happy for you all and will continue to send healing thoughts. Thank you so much for sharing.
Connie
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:32 am
…sorry- spelled Anissa wrong…..my apologies!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:34 am
That is so great! One tough woman you have there.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:37 am
I do not know your wife. I heard about her medical issues by reading Aiming Low. I have been following your posts on her progress and waiting for this exact post! Hooray for you beautiful, strong, courageous wife. She is headed up that mountain, progress may be slow, but she will build momentum and get to the top. The power of prayer is mighty!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:47 am
best thing I’ve read all week!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:52 am
Wonderful news — we are continuing to pray and send our support for your family. Go Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:59 am
Dude, I totally want to kiss you, Anissa and Sandi. YOU MAYHEWS ROCK!!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:00 am
Hello. I have been following Anissa’s progress since I heard about the stroke on Twitter. She and her family are in my prayers and thoughts. Congratulations on the wonderful progress. I will continue to pray for a Christmas miracle that she will be talking to you soon.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:04 am
WOOOHOOOO!!!! YAH GOD!!! That is amazingly encouraging news! Christmas miracles abound!!!!! STaying tuned for more!:)
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:05 am
Hooray for sneers!!! That’s our Anissa.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:11 am
Yes! Anissa! You can DO this! She’s amazing and so inspirational.
We’ll keep praying. I can’t wait to shop this Thursday for Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:11 am
Yay God! I am so happy to hear this good news. Sending lots of prayers and love your way, Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:15 am
This just makes my whole day. Absolutely wonderful news!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:16 am
I love hearing these updates, they sound better each time. I am so happy to hear that things keep improving with Annisa!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:18 am
Yay Anissa! This is great news!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:24 am
Anissa you are so strong Mama! You keep doing what you are doing! Keeping you all in my thoughts on a daily basis!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Awesome news! I’m so excited for all of you.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:35 am
WOW. I knew she could do this but I didn’t expect it quite so soon. I’m nearly walking on air with excitement! WAY TO GO, NISS!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:35 am
Thank goodness for small miracles. Continued thoughts and prayers I hope everyday is a great day.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:35 am
AMEN!! God is so good!
With Him all these are possible! Praying for you Anissa, Peter, and the kids give you strength, peace, and happiness in spite of this trial!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:43 am
yeah!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:44 am
When you wrote that she blew kisses and puckered it gave me chills. Praying for you all!!!!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 11:50 am
Awesome — your wife is AMAZING — then again, you know that already. Thank you for the uplifting update!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
PRAISE GOD!! I pray for you and the kids for strength and patience. Anissa is so blessed to have all of you.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:07 pm
Van Freakin Tastic! Thank you so much for the update and such a great one at that, everyone is better than the next!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:09 pm
Awesome! Go, Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:10 pm
What a fantastic update! Thanks so much, Peter.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:11 pm
thanks for more good news…hope to see more as the week continues!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
Thank you for these updates. Anissa and you and the kids are in my thoughts daily. We miss her on the web!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
What fabulous news! Totally amazing and inspirational to all of us.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:21 pm
Congratulations. I’m loving the news.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Awesome news!! You know, a friend of mine, an Iraq vet came home with all of his troops and then was DX’ed with Brain cancer. They got most of it, but not before Dave had a stroke and a few setbacks.
One of the neatest things was to see him with the baby steps and getting back to driving and working out. He lived much longer than the prognosis given, but he did it when they said it couldn’t be done. And Anissa has so many pulling for her that there is no way she isn’t going to come out of whole!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
So tempted to leave a smart ass comment that I feel an ultra alert Anissa would love, but I’ll wait, there’ll be time for that. Now, just this, more prayers’a coming and tweets as well.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
She IS Anissa Freakin Mayhew indeed! Go girl go!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
I, like many people here, don’t know you or your family (except through Aiming Low and this blog), but I have found myself anxiously checking this site hoping for good news. This was just what I was hoping to hear this morning and has lifted my (and I’m sure your!) spirits immesurably. Thank you for keeping us posted. You all rock.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Hooray!! Up next on the agenda: Unlimited prayers for Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:42 pm
Fantastic news! Keeping the prayers coming, go Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
Praise be to God!
She’ll be kicking ass and taking names in no time!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
The hospital may be surprised by Anissa’s progress, but none of us will be: we KNOW she has it in her. Still hoping, wishing, and praying! <3
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 12:59 pm
How awesome is this post! So Hopeful! So Exciting! So thankful to God! I’m keeping on praying, every day.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
WHOOOOO HOOOOO! THANK YOU GOD! THANK YOU GOD! THANK YOU GOD! More miracles, keep them coming!!! Praying and feeling so uplifted!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Such wonderful news, Peter. DAMN I remember the 3 am poking and prodding. It seemed like the docs were doing all they could to NOT let me rest. Infuriating.
This is Anissa freaking Mayhew. And she’s coming back.
So much love to EVERYONE!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:08 pm
WOOHOO! Go, Anissa!
Continuing to pray, continuing to keep your family in my thoughts every single day.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:08 pm
Love to Anissa and her family. I love it when doctors talk sense like that! C’mon, Anissa, surprise (and delight) us ALL!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Praise the Lord!!!!
Go, Anissa!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
You said it, Peter. She is Anissa Freaking Mayhew. There is no holding her awesomeness back.
I’m so pleased to hear this news!
Go Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
That is fantastic news. It’s amazing what love and family can manage to get done. It sounds as if Anissa is truly a force to be reckoned with…makes me wish I knew your family IRL. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. As a friend of mine said, we will continue to steamroll Heaven with our prayers!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:13 pm
GREAT NEWS!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
I am doing the happy dance right now!!!!! Anissa, you are AMAZING!!!!!!! Peter, YOU are amazing as well! Holding Peyton’s bear for an hour??? That is priceless! She is making great strides to get back to you guys! I’m still praying for her complete recovery ♥
Desera
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
To Anissa and her family: I don’t know you: I found you through @TheBloggess. I’ve been following your progress, and just had to tell you that I’m praying for each of you, and so happy that Anissa is sneering and blowing kisses!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:30 pm
Absolutely amazing! We will certainly keep praying!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Anissa Freakin Mayhew, INDEED.
Awesome. God is good.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Praying, and believing daily for Anissa’s complete. God bless everyone.
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Marcy Reply:
December 8th, 2009 at 1:34 pm
Complete recovery…
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Wow this post has a lot of lil miracles. Way to go Anissa! Keep it coming!!! Praying for a full recovery!!! Don’t give up!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
Awesome news!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:39 pm
This is thrilling. And the prayers keep coming.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
Such wonderful news and progress!! Go, Anissa, go!! XOXO
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Way to go Anissa. You have everyone cheering you on. Thanks Peter for the updates - you have so much going on , it is amazing that you keep us all posted on Anissa’s progress.
Happy belated Birthday to Peyton!
xoxo
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:00 pm
My 86 year old mother had a stroke mid-August. Everyone told us what a miracle therapy could be, but it was hard to imagine that she could go from dead weight on her right side to actually walking and talking. Our one goal was that she could once more be able to go out to eat and see a movie, her favorite outing. I got a pass from the rehab facility and we did that Sunday.
Anissa is obviously strong, and a fighter - just like my mom, but much younger, and probably much stronger. That, prayer and good therapists will get you where you want to go.
My thoughts and prayers are with her and all of you.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
If we supporters have tears of joy reading the update, I cannot begin to imagine what you all are feeling. Stay strong. We all know she will come back to us stronger than ever, and we’ll keep praying and supporting.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:16 pm
Oh, that is just fantastic news. Keep up the awesome work Anissa. You are all continuously in my thoughts and prayers and in my heart. Praying hard.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Praise the Lord for this progress - He will complete the work in her - still praying in Brazil!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
YESSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So very happy for you guys! Anissa is amazing and so are you Peter!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
We know you can do this, Anissa! Keep working and we’ll keep praying. God bless you and your family.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:38 pm
HOORAY!!! Those tiny milestones mean EVERYTHING. I remember the first time my daughter licked a cheez-it without gagging and throwing up. It was nearly 3 months ago, but this morning, she ate an egg, half a biscuit, and two strips of bacon. They’re talking g-button removal now.
Those tiny things add up and add up until eventually, you look back and think “Wow… was she ever so poorly off? Look at all she can do now!”
I’ll send the update to my prayer room. They’ll be overjoyed to know this news!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Woo hoo! So happy for you and your family. And will continue sending tons of good juju. Today and every day.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:47 pm
Heart is leaping again. Go Annisa, Go!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 2:53 pm
Praise God! I have tears in my eyes, I am so happy! God is good, and Anissa is unstoppable! Thank you SO much for the update. I know how busy and overhwhelmed you must be, but it is so nice to get some news! I know she will indeed surprise a bunch of people at that hospital, but I’m pretty sure that none of us will be surprised. Anissa can’t be kept down!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 3:09 pm
Anissa,
(…because I know you’re going to read this someday SOON!), we are all so proud of you. We know how hard you’re working. I know you already know this, but you have a seriously amazing husband. And he has a seriously amazing wife.
You’re doing so great. So incredibly great!!!
XOXOXO,
Amy
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 3:22 pm
THIS IS GREAT NEWS! Tears in my eyes reading about her progress - Keep it up Anissa! We all love and miss you!!!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 3:28 pm
Wonderful news! Teared up reading, praying and praying.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
Undeniable force of nature. Love that. xoxo
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
Oh, and can you do Anissa a big favor — let her watch the season finale of Glee tomorrow night in the hospital. That’ll get her up and singing and dancing FOR SURE!!! But that means you may have to show her the 3 episodes she has missed TODAY! Get to it! : )
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
Wow! There really aren’t words. Just… Wow!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
So amazingly excited to read this today.
I remember with my brother-in-law, the swallow test was a huge step forward.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
God truly does work wonders. I continue to pray for many more miracle moments, hours, days for Anissa. Many thoughts, love and prayers from Illinois
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Peter, this is wonderful news! Five years ago, a dear friend of mine had a car accident and suffered a traumatic brain injury. Reading these posts bring me right back to that time of uncertainty where all the same step were taken. She was transferred to rehab after 3 months, and she had to relearn everything.
I forwarded your last post to her and asked her whether she remembered feeling angry and she said that she was more annoyed that everyone was talking to her like a child and questioning her intelligence. She was extremely frustrated that she couldn’t do the simplest things. It was a long road to recovery and she still has to walk with a cane. But her mind is all back and I’m sure Anissa will be back as well.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 5:07 pm
Truly fabulous news! I’m continuing to pray for Anissa.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 5:10 pm
Pete that is great news about anissa,
we have GREAT news Jessica had her boys last night. 11:33 Jacob, 11:35 Joshua I am now A Grandpa
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
Go Team Anissa. Day-um! So strong.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 5:34 pm
This is so amazing. She is the strongest, fiestiest fighter! When I read the post about asking her if she wanted to go, it made me sob all over my keyboard. I couldn’t help but think that as a mom I know that there is no way I’d ever leave my kids if there was a way to fight. I knew when I read what you wrote that Anissa would have to feel the same way. It’s good you asked though because obviously it made it clear what she needed to do to stay in the game. And she’s done it and then some.
Our family is cheering for you all from California!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
It’s wonderful to hear all the progress she is making. I will keep her in my prayers.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 6:05 pm
A-nissa-mazing!!! That’s the only way I can describe what is going on here.
XOXO
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 6:23 pm
Go, Anissa!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 6:28 pm
Yeah !!!!!
As a far away stranger this makes me giddy, I can’t imagine your bubbling over joy.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
YEAH!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Praise GOD! It will be a Merry Christmas in the Mayhew home.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 6:47 pm
Yeah!!! Super-fantastic-amazing news….love to hear it. thank you for keeping us updated, Peter.
Sending more prayers your way!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
Whoo - Hoooo!
I found you guys through Mommy Wants Vodka and have been checking in everyday. Thanks for posting the update Peter!
Reading your post today gave me goosebumps - I could barely breathe waiting to read what was going to happen next. That is incredible progress and super exciting.
I am thrilled for all of your family.
Prayers still headed your way
Clair
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 7:18 pm
Um, have you mentioned to Annissa how many people are plugged into what’s happening, and are rooting for her? Surely you have. If not, please tell her. Strangers, like me, care and hope she will get better, soon.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 7:22 pm
“It’s about time he realized this is Anissa Freakin Mayhew we’re talking about.”
EXACTLY!!!
I am so, so encouraged by this.
~Megan
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 7:35 pm
Awesome.
I will never understand the late night bath plan. I would be sound asleep and they’d wake me up to bathe me. I hope she’s well enough to chew them out soon.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 7:55 pm
Thank you, Anissa Freaking Mayhew. I needed to smile today.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Of course. Did you expect anything different? I don’t know
Anissa but from what you say and others have commented, it is obvious that she is not only a fighter but a wonderful person who deserves the answer to all the prayers.
Keep up the great work - both of you.
with continued prayers from Massachusetts, Steph.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
What wonderful news I am so happy for all of you! Sometimes you have to take life one minute at a time. Keeping you all in my prayers.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:25 pm
I used to work in a hospital, just at the front desk admitting patients. One night I was on when a serious car accident came in… the woman was five months pregnant and they were sure she was going to die. She didn’t. The baby survived. She survived. She was in ICU for a very long time with absolutely no progress. She was in a coma and no one was holding out hope.
They brought her back to our hospital where she had no friends and family (her husband was with their premature baby in NICU) and I just felt drawn to going and visiting her.
Everyday I would go in and talk to her. I would talk to her about whatever came to my mind… everyone told me I was wasting my time. One day - a month in, she opened one eye, then another eye. Inside I chuckled because I KNEW she was going to get better.
It has been a year since the accident, and while it has been an insanely long process - she is now back to 70% of her capacity. Yes, it wasn’t a stroke, but it is a story of overcoming the gigantic hills that you never think possible.
Anissa will be okay, I have that feeling again. And I am praying with all my heart everyday for this recovery. You are doing a wonderful job… *Hugs* and love.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:25 pm
crying tears of joy….you go anissa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
She is amazing which isn’t at all surprising. xxoo
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Pete — you realize what this means, don’t you? This means that you better make sure you have everything taken care of at home by the time she gets there or she’s gonna use that right leg to kick your butt!
Seriously, though — awesome news buddy! Keep the faith!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:09 pm
Oh, hell yeah.
Awesome beyond words!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 9:40 pm
That’s fantastic, every new movement is a blessing and gives us all hope that she will come through this. Go Anissa! It will take time but we’re all thinking of her and your family.
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:01 pm
Greatest news yet! Continued prayers and love to all… xo
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:34 pm
So happy to hear such great progress. Love that she puckered!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
Thank you for the wonderful news! I will keep praying for you all. God bless you!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:47 pm
Wow. Such wonderful news. Still sending prayers your way!
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on Dec 8th, 2009 at 10:53 pm
Very happy to know abt the progress.
Prayers, positive vibrations,good feelings, everything makes wonders.
Pls upload a current snap of her(if u r comfortable), so that we can send her some positive feelings and reiki.
I have heard that TCM combined with this treatment works wonders and it gives her a chance for recovering soon. please check on TCM.
She remains in our thoughts constantly, and our prayers are always with her.
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 12:21 am
Go Anissa Go!
So excited to hear how much progress she is making.
Still praying!
xo
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 12:22 am
I’m so glad that she’s doing things that she hadn’t before. How awesome that she’s showing signs of improvement.
Anissa and your entire family remain in our prayers.
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 12:46 am
OMG….We serve an Awesome God..Thank you Lord for each improvement in Anissa life. We pray that you continue to Bless her and her family giving them strength and guidance.
What a great story…let’s keep praying!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 1:13 am
What great news. She can do this!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 1:38 am
Love how through it all she is stills showing her spark! Go Annisa, keep on fighting girl. So many of us out there rooting for you!
So happy to hear she is so responsive
Great sign.
Hugs to you and your kids, this cannot be easy and am thinking and praying for all of you.
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 2:09 am
awesome. Awesome. AWESOME!!!!!!!! Still praying!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 2:30 am
Wonderful news!!! Love this:
…It’s about time he realized this is Anissa Freakin Mayhew we’re talking about….
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 8:20 am
this is just so great…so AWESOME! keep up the great work hubby! Anissa is strong and so are you!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 8:38 am
Love hearing this!! This is why a subscribed to your blog. I don’t want to miss a thing. She is soooo amazing!!
Have some of her bestest blogging friends made videos for her? I think that would be great. Bet she would love it.
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 9:35 am
I’ll say it again - your wife is an amazing woman - except you know that already and have heard it a thousand times I’m sure. You have the most wonderful positive perspective on all of this and have taught me so much about faith the past few weeks. My children and I continue to pray for Anissa and your family, as she forges on and continues to make progress. She wants to be with you and I believe nothing will stop her.
With love, prayer, hope and support,
Tricia and family xoxo
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 11:29 am
YAY! YAY! YAY! The docs and nurses at that hospital ain’t seen NUTHIN yet! This is Anissa FREAKIN Mayhew, alright!
Thoughts, prayers and CHEERS continue here in St. Petersburg.
Love,
Ann
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
This is wonderful news. Thank you so much for keeping us updated!!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
I just spent the majority of my morning (at work none the less) reading Anissa’s story after learning about it from the SITSgirls. I will continue to life Anissa and your family up in my prayers — what an awesome miracle you are experiencing.
Blessings!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
Truly amazing! Continuously praying for all of you!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Anissa you are unstoppable. Keep going girl. Much love
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Rockin’ it out Anissa!! Prayers are still coming to you and yours! Awesome news, and thanks again Peter for keeping complete strangers, as myself, informed and hanging on every word!
~Germantown, OH
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
Great news — you guys are kicking butt and we’re all rooting and praying for you. So inspired and encouraged by her strength.
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 2:40 pm
Oh but such good progress! Not to tell you what to do but I’ll just do it anyway - this is would be a great time to bring in an acupuncturist. My mother moved her toes on her affected side the first time an hour after her accupuncture treatment. She had been completely locked up on her right side up until that moment. I feel that accupuncture unlocked her. Don’t know if the hospital will go for it but you can but try. The rehab center my mom was in was baffled by it but just fine as soon as I said that we were private paying. They were just worried about having to pay. And the chance for Anissa and the kids to connect. So important! I am praying the intention that Anissa will be in a rehab center, speaking, thinking, planning for the future and hugging her family this Christmas. And that you will be physically strong and mentally joyful.
Amen
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
I do not know your wife. But I’ve been following along. I’m just a newly licensed nurse. But I am a researcher/learner by nature. The signs your wife is showing indicate incredible progress! Because she had her stroke on the left side speech is going to be one of her toughest challenges. Her memory seems to be pretty intact which is fabulous. Don’t ever be deterred by a doc’s prognosis because they do not know what Anissa can do. Will is paramount. The fact she can swallow pudding is a huge triumph!
There’s a book out by a Harvard brain researcher who experienced a stroke herself at a young age. It gives some insight to those who’ve never been there. I can’t remeber the name but I bet if you google Harvard researcher and stroke it will come up. I gave my copy to my nursing program or I’d send it.
Your faith in your wife and prayers amaze. Keep up the awesome work!!!!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 5:20 pm
Praying for your wife. Don’t give up hope. Every little thing is huge right now and make sure she gets lots of praise & encouragement with every milestone! I have seen people make dramatic recoveries. It will take lots of time, lots of work, lots of frustration, lots of ups and downs but she is a fighter and has a great support system!
For encouragement: **One important fact to know in this case is that about 50% of persons suffering from an intraparenchymal hemorrhage die during such an episode. Of the other 50% who survive the hemrrhage, most have fair to good recovery, depending upon various factors such as age, treatment, etc. Pontine Hemorrhage has better prognosis in younger patients. The volume of the hematoma also matters. Chances of recovery are better if the volume of the hematoma is somewhere near 3.3 ml. ** Another fact to note is that the hematoma usually does not result in death of the brain tissue surrounding it. That area of the brain can resume functioning gradually. with physiotherapy and occupational therapy interventions.
Will definitely keep her in my prayers.
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 6:44 pm
Go Anissa! Peter, I’d like to get in touch with you because I’m putting together a Boobs For Anissa calendar that I think she’ll get a chuckle out of eventually, and I’d like to set it up so that your family gets all of the proceeds. If you see this comment, please email me. If not, I’ll find another way to get in touch with you!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 7:37 pm
I CANNOT WAIT to meet this woman. Go Anissa!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
She is a rock star. A total, total rock star.
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
Go Anissa Go! Thanks so much for the detailed update, it’s the best news I’ve read all day!
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 9:58 pm
Hi there, I followed a link from Redneck Mom when this first happened and have been checking in and praying for all of you daily. You guys are doing amazingly and its awesome to see such a strong family.
On the talking thing, not sure if this will help but if she is willing to try maybe you could do what we did to help my friend’s deaf son learn to make sounds. He used to sit with his hand on our throats while we read him stories, feeling the vibration helped him learn the sensation and relate it to his own throat.
Always in my prayers
Kate
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on Dec 9th, 2009 at 11:36 pm
I just found out. Anissa and I have known each other on Twitter for the last year and a half or so, and she is one of the most awesome people that I have never met (in person, anyway)!
When I saw what happened, I thought, ‘Anissa, a massive stroke? WTF???? Impossible!’ Thank you so much Peter, for blogging her progress, because it is awesome to see that she IS fighting hard and is making the journey forward. My thoughts and prayers join the large and growing group around the world for Anissa and your entire family. Her virtual friends like me will be waiting faithfully for the day when she can tweet right back at us, but until then, we’re right behind you, and I hope that helps in some small way.
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 12:17 am
Peter - This is such a huge responsibiltiy for you. You are not the writer, yet you are writing, and doing a fabulous job at it, I might say. You have been such an inspiration to me in terms of what it means to love someone and to support someone and to live in the moment and appreciate life. I know this is tough. Especially for a man. I don’t mean that in a condescending way. I mean that in a “I get it” kind of way. Please don’t feel overwhelmed by the estrogen pouring through our supportive posts. Please get help elsewhere…from men. You can do this. You can do this.
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 12:47 am
I’m jumping up and down, I thrilled! I know, don’t get too excited and all. But this is wonderful! I’m sending so many prayers, so many hugs, so many good thoughts to your family. Keep on working, Anissa!
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 1:11 am
Amen, amen!! Let’s go Anissa! One day at a time sister!!
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 3:17 am
Great news! I don’t know if this has been suggested to you before, but check out this site and the documentary about this neuro-scientist. She tells a really fascinating story of her own experience of a severe stroke and the long recovery from it:
http://www.mystrokeofinsight.com/
I haven’t read her book, but the documentary about her experience was deeply moving and her insights are amazingly interesting and unique.
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 4:29 am
Not that I had any doubt…but Anissa - you are AMAZING!
As is your wonderful family!
Keep up the good work woman!
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 11:30 am
Oh my GOD this is so wonderful to hear.
Steph
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Peter!!! This is fantastic news!!
Yay!
Keep fighting anissa!
Praying, always praying.
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
this progress is great news indeed! and you’re right…she is anissa freakin mayhew. no doubt about that. she’s a tough lady :0)
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
Still praying and sending hugs to you all. Go Anissa Go!
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Hi
I don’t know you or your family but found this site through a carepage that I follow. I wanted to let you know we are praying for your family. My daughter was diagnosed with a brain tumor almost 2 years ago and I believe through the power of prayer we were given a miracle!! She is alive and doing well. Keep up the prayers and just believe, MIRACLES CAN HAPPEN!!!! We wish you all the best of luck and will continue our prayers for you and your family!!!
The Hemberger family from Pa
Lisa, Andy,
Andrew,Brielle,Cody,Brett,Brayden and Cory!!
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
Woooo Hoooooo! Go Anissa Go! Go Mayhews Go!
I’ve got goosebumps and tears in my eyes. Good thoughts and energy continue to flow your way from CA.
xoxoxoxoxo
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
It makes my heart so happy to read good these glimmers of good news. Keep on keeping on Anissa!
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
Thanks for keeping this so up to date. All of this is such good news. She is amazing.
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
any flicker is a ray of hope and progress…we are praying for your Beautiful wife and family!
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
she’s doin’ it, she’s doin’ it, she’s doin’ it well!!! yay team anissa! i’m stoked just reading this post and bouncing off the walls for what this progess means. she’s fighting so hard. you and your children are fighting so hard. we are praying harder than you can possibly imagine. go you guys, go! all love and strength juju coming your way
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on Dec 10th, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Go Anissa, go! What a strong mama she is. I’m impressed! She’s going to set new records for that hospital, I’m sure of it.
Still sending warm thoughts from Ottawa, Canada. Keep getting better, girl! Much love to the entire family.
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on Dec 11th, 2009 at 1:13 am
Pete, I don’t know you but you and your family have been in my prayers. Remember, no matter how intelligent your doctors are, they do NOT know what your brave, strong wife can do. My own father was admitted into the ICU here in Atlanta 3 weeks ago. In the middle of chemo he became profoundly neutropenic, septic, raging pnemonia, multi-organ failure, had 2 strokes while crashing and in a coma. We were told he would certainly die on Sunday Nov. 20th, that there was nothing they could do and no way to get thru this. To make a long story short, he has proven them wrong time and time again. Even after he continued to live, his critical care doctor encouraged me to think about “stopping treatment” because his prognosis was “so poor”. Now, in the past few days, his liver and kidneys and lungs are all working again. He woke up yesterday and blinked on command. Last night I told him that I loved him and he mouthed the words “I love you too” back to me. Tonight he was bobbing his head to Christmas carols. It was amazing. Now they are telling us that he will recover, after they had totally written him off. The power of prayer is almost incomprehensible. I repeat your Romans verse every day. You updates have given me hope when I desparately needed it. We shall continue to pray for Anissa.
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on Dec 11th, 2009 at 1:32 am
I’m overjoyed for you, Peter…to the point of tears! A HUG!!! I bet that was the absolute SWEETEST hug you have felt in your life, after waiting and praying so hard for it! I am so happy to hear about her progress, and I know she is going to prove to everyone just how much of a SuperWoman she is. As always, I am constantly thinking of you both and your children, and sending my warmest, most loving thoughts directly to you!
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on Dec 11th, 2009 at 2:02 am
Does anyone else hear ” I will survive, I will survive, well as long as I know how to live I KNOW I’ll STAY ALIVE!!!!”
Prays GOD! Thank you Lord for giving her the FIGHT!!!
I love you Anissa, Cant wait to see you!!!
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on Dec 11th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
Amazing!!!! She is so hardcore. I love it.
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